Birds Of A Feather Flock Together-Proverb


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     Birds Of A Feather Flock Together ℘ –  Proverb    

The whole proverb means that people of same nature,type,personality,upbringing,cultural root stays together.


Still, I remember the day,                        ♥                                                                  

Yes, it was…………………..,                                                      ♥

Still, I remember the time,
                                                           ♥                                                                     
Yes, it was……………………,
As per my regular scheduled, I logged-in in my email-id and blog.
Out of hundred messages, I  found this very sweet message……
“Congratulation, Himali Shah of Decoding happiness is now following your blog”.
                                                  ♣
Wow………. wonderful……… Fantastic………. fabulous…….MY usual reaction,
                           ♠   
One blogger has started to follow my blog,
                                                                      
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog, which no one even cares to notice has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog, which is created by most illiterate person of the planet, and teaches others to be literate, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog created by a person, who hardly knows anything about writing, and than also keep writing, whatever, comes in his mind, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) a blog created by one person, whose, lack of proper knowledge of English language is laughing point for most of the bloggers, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog created by one weird person, who hardly follow the rules of traditional, Stereotype blogging pattern and publish the posts on most strange manner, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!                     φ
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) a blog created by most failure person in life and wants to teach the world of the rules of success has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) a blog slowly but steadily becoming threats for the so-called “Bigies” of blogging world and compels them to change their style, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog run by the one weird blogger who always view their critics with one proverb ” Barking Dogs Seldom Bite” has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!!
                 ¥
The same blog has got one more follower,
Very strange!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Bloggers are dying and crying to get one more follower, participate in each “Community Pool” thread, Use the most effective tool of Blogging Awards Posts, X nominated Y, Y once again nominated X, and each other keep nominating each other until they both get exhausted!!!!!!!!!! “, paste their blog’s link whenever and wherever they find any opportunity to lure one more follower and, here, I am without any marketing gimmicks or tremendous tricks or hard selling techniques have got one more follower.
                                                                   ♥
Yes, Himali, on that day,  you gave me first reason to Decoding my  happiness.
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After initial hysteria and happiness…………                                  ♦
As per my normal practice, I visited your blog,   
I found the name of the blog,                                                                              ♠
“Decoding Happiness”              
Yes, Himali, one that day,you gave me second reason to Decoding my happiness,by choosing one of the best name of blog.
                                            ♣
During my first visit I found, Decoding Happiness, is vast empire of this wide world of Web, and each corner of this empire is full with, Love,  happiness, joy,  cheerfulness, optimism & positivism……….
                                                                                     ∑
I thought that, since, I have already visited this empire, let me see who is the PRINCESS of this vast empire.
As a curios person, I visited “About page…………
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I found that by profession this modern princess is “Chartered Accountant” one of the highly prestigious and admirable profession in Indian subcontinent.
Yes, Himali, on that day, you gave me the third reason to Decoding my happiness.
Because, during my study, How to secure minimum marks on Accountancy, Statistics, or any subject related to complex mathematical calculation was one the most worrisome issue and here one lady named  Himali, master of that subject is following my blog.                                         
Miracles do happens!!!!!!                          
GOD IS GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!                                                                              ♦
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Than, I explore other posts of Decoding Happiness,
I found that, She is very sweet and loving daughter of  her mother♦
She is very adorable sister of her brother,                       ♦
Yes, It gave me immense pleasure that my blog is followed by one very sweet,lovely and very family oriented person, because, I too respect this quality a lot in my personal life…….                 ♣
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As a my regular practice, I wrote one sweet “Thanks” comment for following my blog.
Without any expectations,                          ♠        
Without any return favor………..
Because, she is the princess of vast empire which has nearly 500+  inhabitants (followers,)
Hundreds of comments on various posts,                                     ♣
Hundred of likes on her Facebook page,
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Why on a earth, such a distinguish,notable blogger of her class,quality and stature will reply to my comment?
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But as a very optimistic person, anyhow, I wrote that comment,
                                                        
And do you know? out of my sheer surprised, she replied my comment with lots of warmth,cheerfulness and joy.
                                                    It  was  our first conversation  ♥
                                                                                     ♠
It is said that,
“our words reflects true color,character,mental state,quality,upbringing, family value, tradition, our own moral and ethics and principles of our personality”.
                                    
From that reply I found that she is not only…..
Best of best bloggers,                          ♦
She is not only best of best writers,                       
But,
She is the person with                   
Sweet soul,
Noble heart                      ♥
and purity of mind, her each word reflects her inner soul,
                                                   ∗
Yes, Himali, on that day, you gave me fourth reason to Decoding my happiness,
Because,                           ∗
as a very simple,sober and straight-forward,GOD loving,humble, human being, I always like the company of same people and in each of these qualities you were and are far better,far superior, far ahead, and  far senior than me,
                                ≡                                                      ∗
Yes, out of millions of negative, ill minded, naysayers, haters, traitors,Negative, harmful, pessimistic,depressing,  destructive,cynical,disheartening,conspirators, biased persons, I found one very similar person of my own nature,personality, ethics,value and belief.
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From that day onward,
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I simply respected you as a my MY YOUNGER SISTERgood friend, fellow blogger,humble human being, sweet soul,caring and sharing friend,
And till today………….                              
Not a single time, you gave me any reason to complain about you,
Not a single time, you gave me any reason, to distrust you,                    ∗
Not a single time you gave me any reason to be unhappy with you,
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As a normal tendency, every human relation runs on “Give and Take” theory,
                                                                                       
But being a selfish person, being a practical person, being a very arrogant and proud person,
Not a single time, I fulfilled my duty of giving back to you,
                  ¥                                                                                        ♦
Never cared to simple clikc of “LIKE” on your various versatile posts ranging from the subject of love, compassion, empathy, humanity.
Never cared to comment on your various classic, cool and qualitative posts written by you,
Never cared to “Read your sweet posts written straight from the ocean deep heart”,
                                                                   
After all, I was very much, practical person, and it does not fall in to my practical plan or mind that I too should read your ALL  posts,”LIKE” on it, Comment on it,
But,                                                               
As a,
 Saint like soul,
♦ Sage like character,         
♦ Monk like mortals,                                                                       ♥
You never cared about it,
After all,
“Sweet and Solid soul of Saints,Sages and Monks born on this earth to give  others, not receiving from others”,                                                   ♠
AND……………..
What a beggar like me offer to one of the richest person on earth,
So, I never, offered you any “Nomination of any Bloggging Award”,
You never mind it,           
What a tenant of small house can offer to princess of wealthiest kingdom,
So, I never offered you any……….
Five day Five photo challenge, Love and hate challenge, or any other challenge you,
you never mind it,
                                                                                      ♠
What a handicap child offer to best Athlete of the world,
So,I never, Invited you to participate in “Three day three quote challenge,
You never mind it,
                                                                 ♥
And till today,
you never mind anything at all, and from VERY beginning you are on the “Giving end” and I am on the “Receiving End”,
 But, today, I realized that……….
                             
“If you truly Love to GOD, preferably you should go regularly to your defined religious place every day, perform the rituals or worship on daily basis, but, somehow, you do not do this, As a creator of this universe, as a motivational force of this universe, he hardly bothers  ABOUT it,whatever he had and have givens us, whether, we acknowledge it as a his gift or not, he hardly bothers………..No he never bother about it.……
                                                          
But as a showing our love and gratitude, once in a while we should chant his name, once in a while we should do some random act of kindness towards others and unknown, some random act of loving and helping to others,
It is not for him, but it is for us,
                               
The same way, this is my smallest effort on the very auspicious day of
                                                                   “Friendship Day”♥
to show my love,affection,respect and care towards you as a MY YOUNGER SISTER, best blogging buddy,
It is not for you, but, for me I am doing it.
In spite of my lots of lack, limitations,pride,prejudices,hate,anger,ego,jealousy,negativity, thanks a lot for choosing me as a your best blogging friend…….
In spite of all the time being on the “Giving End’ still, you stuck with as a rock solid friend during my thick and thin time of blogging life………………
                              ∗
As a religious and spiritual person, I worship a lot to GOD, and I am quiet confident that after my years of dedication,devotion and worship, one day, GOD will be certainly pleased with me and ask me to demand one wish, and
Do you know,
What I will ask as a my wish?
 
I will ask the GOD “To give birth to more and more good people like you on this earth”
BECAUSE, IN THE CURRENT SITUATION OF HATE,RACISM, TERRORISM,POLITICAL TURMOIL,
WE NEED NO MORE     “TERRIFYING AND TROUBLESOME TERRORISTS”,
WE NEED NO MORE      “POWERFUL AND POISON TYPE POLITICIANS”,
WE NEED NO MORE       “ NAYSAYERS,NEGATIVE AND GENERATION OF HATERS”,
BUT, WE NEED MORE AND MORE PERSON LIKE YOU ON THIS EARTH………………
JUST one HIMALI SHAH ” Through her blog, through her personality, kindle thousands of soul, enlighten thousands of minds, and spread the message of peace,happiness and love,
Just Imagine,
If we have millions of persons like her on this planet, certainly, it can turn hell into heaven”
Last but not least……………..
                                                        ♥  This is  our last conversation  ♥
                                                                                     ♠
Your question……………
My answer…………………….
“WISHING A VERY “HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY “TO MY YOUNGER SISTER & DEAREST BLOGGING buddy”
……………………………..
TO ALL THE READERS,
By the way, It is plain Blogging post, it has nothing to do with my or Himali’s personal life, me and Himali are good “Blogging Friends” of each other, we more often, communicate with each other through our respective blog, our other mutual friends blog( OUR OPEN AND TRANSPARENT COMMUNICATION IS AVAILABLE ON NET, IN OUR RESPECTIVE BLOGS, IN CASE, ANYBODY WANTS TO REFER IT IN PRESENT OR FUTURE, I NEVER COMMUNICATE WITH MY ANY FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS THROUGH PERSONAL EMAIL ID)  and as a Die-hard fan of her blog, I am quiet familiar with her each posts, which, I was needed to write this post, SO, I have used her blog as a my expression to respect her,
I always respect Himali as a my younger Sister”,
As a part of my “Creative Writing Course” now a days, I am experimenting with various writing style, In my previous post, in classic manner I used tone of various emotions in best possible manner  “Fun and Flirting tone”, A little sad tone by using SAD fictional story of my life in post, I used very bold and blunt approach by using many words which as a civilized person I avoid in my blog.
After all, I am running this blog for my happiness, not for the happiness of others,
So, stay tuned, for more off-beat,bold, Out of the box type, firing type of posts on future,those who do not like my blog please do not hesitate to unsubscribe or avoid to visit it.
THE LESS THE BETTER, I  MEAN IT!!!!!!!
I prefer “Class over Mass”,
I prefer ” Quality over Quantity”
 

ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB

Dear friends,

Please excuse me for few days, I will not be present on the world of WORD PRES.

Where am I going?

Of course in Heaven!!!

Why?

Very simple, the lovely ladies of this LAND, in spite of my constant refusal “nominating me for various blogging awards”, compelling me to accept the  “Challenges”, requesting me to write the “Guest posts on their blog.”

No doubt, I am determined,disciplined and decent man, but, till how long one can resist, when to avoid,to ignore one beauty seems daunting task, bunch of beauties, provoking you…………Constantly………Endless…….

Enough is enough……..

I do not want to test my will power any more, before, I surrender myself to you, it is safest way to escape,quit & run away, before you catch me, at least for few days and that is why I am going to heaven.

Awesome and Amazing Akiraa nominated me for “STARLIGHT BLOGGING AWARD”

Electrifying and Elegant Erika nominated me for “DRAGON’S LOYALTY AWARD”

Elegant and Easygoing Erika nominated me for “THE SUNSHINE AWARD”

Excellent and Exclusive Eloquent deviance nominated me for “THE LIBSTER AWARD”

Fabulous and Fantastic Frugal fab nominated me for “THE VERSATILE BLOGGER AWARD”

Hilarious & Happy Helen nominated me for “SISTERHOOD OF THE WORLD BLOGGERS AWARD”

Kindhearted and Keen Katho nominated me for “THE LIBSTER AWARD”

Marvelous and Magnificent Meloheart invited me to write guest post on her new blog “SEEKING ROMANCE”

I politely refused her, why? she wants me to write the guest posts on her new yet very romantic blog on “ROMANCE”, “If it was about “FLIRTING” I could have thought about it, because from childhood I have firm grip on this subject, but, ROMANCE & LOVE, always alien words,troublesome and terrifying test for me, once, I tried my hand on it,badly wounded, still suffering, still RECOVERING,from that day on ward, I decided except me and GOD, I will not throw my pure 24 Karat GOLD LIKE HEART to any one….

AFTER ALL, PRECIOUS AND FRAGILE THINGS NEED SPECIAL HANDLING, ISN’T IT”? CORRECT ME, IF I AM WRONG.

New kid on block Nabilah nominated me for “THE VERSATILE BLOGGER AWARD”

STYLISH and SWEET Shruti challenged me for “THREE DAY THREE QUOTE CHALLENGE”

YOUNG  and YOUTHFUL Yashika nominated me for “CREATIVE BLOGGER AWARD”

 

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My previous post has become most successful post of my blog, thanks to all those who have click on it, thanks to all those who have read it, thanks to all those who have “LIKE” it and special thanks to

Decent Dr.Sweety, Electrifying Erika, Honourable Himali, Lovely Lionessblogger, Magical Marie, Simple Shelie,     Manficient Meloheart, Dashing Donna, Amazing Anxietybug88, Dear Dream it alive, Sweet taste of Chocolate,   Narrative Nadege, Nectarous Netta, Vedic  Velcherup, Sweet Shweta, Nice Nicole, Interesting Isabella, Amazing Akiraa, Beautiful flower of Rose, Close companion Chhaya,Inspirational Kim, Pure Pallavi, Saaint like Stacy, Simply superb Star,

For your live,active and interesting participation on discussion.

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UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

As all of you know very well, I have started NEW section named “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)” in my blog, under this section, now onward, In my each post, I will feature or promote one blog(er) of my followers.

QUALIFYING CRITERIA;

  • Blogger must be follower of this (QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS) blog.
  • Blogger’s active involvement with this blog as a commentator on various posts (Do not worry, I publish posts twice in a month, 1 & 15 of every month,so every other day, I will not bore you with my useless and rubbish posts of various blogging awards,in which you will have to read about which underwear I ware or what is the size of my private parts), live & active participation on various debate and discussion going on this blog, constant communication in the form of fruitful feedback, solid suggestions, helpful hints and trustworthy tips, in short, active community member,
  • Why all this? simple, I like live-wire,talkative,friendly people around me in my cyber life, if you are one of them, fine, you will find close companion in me, if you are not, sooner or later, you will realize, we are not on same wavelength,  Honestly speaking, I have created this blog for building the bridges with strangers, unknown people, I hardly concern about how many followers I have, but, yes, I do concern about how many friends I have, with whom, without entering in their personal life or allowing them into my personal life enjoy the plain, pure and innocence joy of true friendship. Are you interested, if yes, our vibes match.. OTHERWISE…..
  • Uniqueness of blog in terms of nature of blog, quality of posts, creative content, outstanding material and last but not least friendliness or friendly nature of blogger(Very important criteria).

Now, it’s time for this post’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER).

Today, I am little bit confused, how I describe her, because, she is all in one, an all rounder.

Should I describe her as a Mermaid, because, her friends refer to her as “Mermaid”because,  it’s totally normal to her to stay in the ocean most of her life, and that creatures lurking the beach that makes her a little jittery.

Should I describe her as a devoted wife and caring mother of two handsome son?

Should I describe her as a tough professional because she has nearly 30 years experience in retailing?

Should I describe her as a fun-loving,easy-going, friendly nature bloger?

Should I describer her as a very creative,talented, gifted bloger?.

No friends, none of above title justify her true personality, I am unable to portrait perfect picture of this gorgeous, colorful,charming,vibrant and dynamic lady,

Do you know what connect both of us on more deeper level, we both are highly intellectual, sharp analytical and quiet practical person in our personal life but in spite of all these qualities we both are mad and crazy lover of GOD and we never hesitate to admit it openly. Who cares???

Yes, I am talking about none other than one and only dashing diva of blogspeher as a………..

UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

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NOW, IT’S TIME FOR TODAY’S POST,

ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB

Yes friends,
Words are indeed sound superb, there is no doubt about it, but those words lose it’s charm or importance when it is used as monotonous process or from -ROBOT- like mouth, without any action justify or prove it worthiness.
YOUR ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB
 
Instead of saying “I Love You” three times in a day,sending few text messages, sharing few sweet lovely poems,occasional cards, cheap gifts on “Valentine Day” to your girl friend……
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to pass on her exams…..
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone,to find the job….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone,to tolerate the nasty,rude,vulgar,cheap and bitter comments someone passing on her heavy weight, bulky body,ugly look, uneven body shape,big melon size boobs, big buttocks,flat playground like chest, pimples on face, black and dark spots on face…..
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to face the bullying by unknown person….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to tolerate the trauma, trouble and torture she is facing when there is peer pressure to perform on certain manner or as per society’s stereotype standards,no matter how much it is against her will and happiness……
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS…………
 
Instead of hug her before leaving home and while coming back to your wife…
Be there,when she is fighting her battle alone against death in that maternity home’s delivery room to conceived your first child….
Be there when she is fighting her battle alone to deal with your family members or in-laws rigid and conservative mind-set….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is managing your household effectively and efficiently when your low income is even not half of the monthly requirement…..
Show your gratitude when her skeleton like body throughout the day work hard to finish all the household work without any maid help and at night gives you cool comfort of her warm breath on your chest and satisfying your hunger, play,rub,shake and some time suck your penis, to give you plain pleasure of pleasant,sweet and sound sleep,no matter, how much exhausted or tired she is…
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when raising one kid seems daunting task, she is raising your more than one kid as a most efficient teacher cum mother without any complain or drama.
Kiss her gently when your low libido(lower sex drive,appetite or hunger ) hardly satisfy her sexual requirements and due to that she never experience climax(a discharge of neuromuscular tension at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female ,usually known as an orgasm-urbandictionary) and due to that most of the time she remains hungry,unsatisfied,depressed and lost that also without any complain or drama………..
Because………..
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS………….
Instead of being part of every celebration of success of your close friend, instead of sending every day few vulgar, cheap and pornography video clips of Sunny leon or women with big and beautiful boobs, various sex positions, how to fuck the women,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder, when unemployment has broke her down,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder,when her confidence level has deteriorate up to the extent and she is seriously thinking to commit the suicide,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder when she is desperate, she is alone, she need to talk with some one and no one is there,
Be there, just sit with her, just seat silently, let her speak, let her cry, let her do what ever she think most appropriate in this situation………………
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……………
 
Instead of becoming crusader of humanity, delivering long and boring lecture whenever and wherever find the crowd, instead of publishing lengthy, rubbish,useless and stereotype posts on your blog about humanity,sympathy, empathy, pick up one or few followers from your own blog, be friend with them, win their heart, win their trust,be genuine with them and slowly but steadily, just start to uplift them, empower them, enhance them, without doing any drama, without any publicity, without any stunt, without creating any big scenes on social media, without even caring about declaring your real name, forget about any personal glory and gratification or return favor
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS…………….
 
Instead of trying to make everybody more noble,charitable, sympathetic,human,
While passing through road in your cool, comfortable and classic car, get down from car and help that old & disable lady, who is struggling hard since last few minutes to cross the road,
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……….
 
Instead of proving your self feminist on every social gathering by your very sophisticated, very polished, very diplomatic style, behaviors, manners and etiquette, raise your voice as loud as possible when you see that young, helpless girl or that helpless divorcee women everyday molested by your boss to keep her job intact,
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……..
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GOOD BYE FRIENDS, NOW, AS PER MY PLAN I AM GOING TO HEAVEN FOR FEW DAYS, PLEASE, DO NOT FOLLOW ME THERE, PLEASE DO NOT CHASE ME THERE………
BECAUSE………
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CHASE OR RUN BEHIND ME ANYWHERE, IF YOU LOOK CAREFULLY IN YOUR HEART, IN ONE CORNER OF THAT HEART YOU WILL FIND ME, BECAUSE, I ALWAYS RESIDE ON SWEET SOUL,NOBLE HEART & PURE MIND OF MY LOVELY AND SWEET FRIENDS SPREAD UP ALL ACROSS THE GLOBE…………
 

PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT-proverb

THIS IS SECOND POST OF SERIES; MY JOURNEY FROM 0 TO 100 FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS (for reading previous post right click here)

Today’s post;

PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT-proverb

There are many reasons of failures; some of them are worth to mention;

  • LACK OF PRACTICE
  • NEGATIVE PERSONALITY
  • PROCRASTINATION
  • LACK OF ENTHUSIASM
  • LACK OF CONCENTRATION OF EFFORT
  • OVER-CAUTION
  • LACK OF SELF-DISCIPLINE
  • LACK OF A WELL-DEFINED PURPOSE IN LIFE
  • INABILITY TO COOPERATE WITH OTHERS
  • LACK OF AMBITION TO AIM ABOVE MEDIOCRITY
  • WRONG SELECTION OF A VOCATION
  • SUPERSTITION AND PREJUDICE
  • INSUFFICIENT EDUCATION
  • LACK OF A WELL DEFINED POWER OF DECISION
  • ILL HEALTH

But out of all; do you know which one reason I consider most influential, most powerful, and most responsible for someone’s failure??????????

LACK OF PRACTICE;

Yes, lack of practice is one factor, I consider most responsible in someone’s failure. Practice-This simple looking virtue can fundamentally affect our success or failure in each and every endeavor of life and same applies in our blogging life too. After having one and half years experience in blogging life, after publishing 27 posts on my blog, after receiving 451 comments on my blog, after having hundreds of likes on my various posts, after nominated for many awards after passing thousands comments on various blogs

What one lesson I learned????????????????

Practice……Practice…….Practice………Practice……..Practice……..Practice……..Practice…….

The more I practice the more it build up my confidence, the more I practice the more it improvise my skill, the more I practice the more it improvise my speed, the more I practice the more it improvise my productivity.

In short; when I started my blog at that time I had 0 followers cum friends and today I have more than 100 + followers cum friends and major credit goes to my regular practice in each and every sphere of blogging, whether it is publishing post, replying to the comments on my blog, or commenting on my many friend’s blog this simple virtue of regular practice helped me a lot.

  • Practice means to perform, over and over again without being frustrated or losing enthusiasm in the face of all obstacles, some act of vision, of faith, of desire.
  • We cannot be perfect on the very first try; In the face of frustration, in the face of failures our best tool is a few deep breaths, and remembering that we can do anything and everything if we practice hard.
  • Practice is an exercise, practice is mantra it simply tunes both our physical and mental entities to the required frequency that helps us to lead towards perfection.
  • Practice is one such tool which sharpens & strengthens our abilities and capabilities beyond our capacities in pursuit of our worthy goal.
  • Practice awakens the lethargic or dormant potential we have and induces confidence and that confidence helps us to succeed in any task.
  • To practice is to meditate in positive and negative situation.

Concluding part or summary or morale of the story; we have to be aware of the fact that without planned and constant practice, it is next to possible to reach to achieve goals. So perfection and practice go simultaneously that is why practice makes a man perfect.

“Today, I am asking one simple question to all of you, out of all above reasons of failures which one relates you more and what is your counter strategy to deal with it”??????????

LET US BE HONEST IN OUR OWN EVALUATION BECAUSE PREREQUISITE CONDITION OF SUCCESS IS TO CONFESS OUR WEAKNESS OPENLY AND WITHOUT ANY SHAME….

Regarding today’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER); I don’t have any word to describe, you just visit and write whatever you feel in comment section of it…Let us be a human being, let us enlarge our heart, let us experience someone’s pain, and let us create few moments of happiness in someone’s life, because as you know as you sow so shall you reap (right click here)

ONE SINCERE,POLITE & VERY HUMBLE REQUEST TO MY ALL THE FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS, ALL OF YOU MUST VISIT THIS UNIQUE BLOG(ER) AND WRITE ONE OF THE MOST INSPIRATIONAL COMMENT OF YOUR LIFE IN THE COMMENT SECTION OF THIS POST.

I WISH, EACH ONE OF YOU ARE VERY LIVE HUMAN BEING SO YOU KNOW VERY WELL WHAT TO DO IN THIS KIND OF SITUATIONS AND CIRCUMSTANCES………

Today’s (Right click here) UNIQUE BLOG(ER) 

 

 

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still. Chinese Proverb

MOST SENSATIONAL NEWS……………..
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These are the breaking news, major stories, running throughout the world in all electronics & printing media, shared in all social medias & creating sensation, creating waves of excitement & enthusiasm all over the world people are mad and crazy after hearing OR reading this story.
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Read it with undivided attention, complete focus & complete presence of mind, otherwise you will miss one very very important news.
Breaking news…
From our newsroom,
By our special correspondent,
30/04/2015-Thursday,
“Quotations, Idioms & Proverbs, an exclusive blog about quotations, idioms & proverbs, a word press hosted blog have crossed first major mile stone on 30/04/2015-Thursday by entering into the elite club of “100 HAPPY FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS” club.
100 FOLLOWERS cum FRIENDS………………100 FOLLOWERS cum FRIENDS
On this auspicious, joyous & cheerful occasion, to thank all the followers cum friends, readers & well wisher; the blog has issued this statement.
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ANOTHER NEWS STORY FROM ANOTHER LEADING NEWSPAPER;
To make world aware about the simple human being behind this blog, the blog has issued this statement, where some of the facts are revealed which are quiet unknown till today.
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ON THIS OCCASION THE BLOG HAS ANNOUNCED TWO IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENTS….
ANNOUNCEMENT NO: 1
Recently (or date) my “followers cum friends” subscription base has reached magic number of 100;
To document my journey from 0 to 100 followers I will publish nearly 8 to 10 posts twice in a month-(1- 15 & 15-30) in this regard; it will explain you “how you too can reach 100 followers in very short time”? with the help of suitable QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS In easy-to-understand manner; under the series;
FROM 0 to 100-FOLLOWERS- IF I CAN, YOU TOO CAN ACHIEVE IT
ANNOUNCEMENT NO: 2
“UNIQUE BLOG(ER) SECTION”
I reached here by you people- my follower cum friend’s constant love, affection, support, kindness, co-operation, feedback and loyalty, yes, it’s very true, and so, when you people helped me to reach here I too will help you too reach there.
So, from this post, I am starting one section, “UNIQUE BLOG(ER) SECTION” Under this section once or twice in month, I will promote or feature one UNIQUE BLOG(ER) from my followers cum friends list with brief description as well as URL of blog.
QUALIFYING CRITERIA;
Blogger must me follower of my blog.
Bloggers involvement with my blog by commenting or participating in various posts & discussions.
Uniqueness, creativity, writing style, subject matter, way of presentation and overall quality of posts and content will be the major criteria for qualifying
Based on above criteria, from this post only I have started to feature “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)”, so, do not forget to visit this section placed at the end of this, who knows you, or your blog may be featured or promoted here under UNIQUE BLOG(ER).
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                                               “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)
When you imagine meeting any person in real or cyber world suffering from early childhood as a serious patient of DEPRESSION with suicidal tendency, what can you expect from him/her?????
A sad & gloomy face, overall sadness, life-less eyes, lack of interest in pleasurable or any normal activity, constant worry & anxiety, hardly exited or enthusiastic about anything in life, negative mentality, overall hopeless attitude towards life, obsessive ruminations, this is what we imagine in our mind when we meet such a person in real or cyber world.
But there are some exceptional people, who completely break all these barriers and instead of defeated by depression, they are defeating depression, instead of dominated by depression they are dominating depression with their do or die, fight to finish, killer instinct kind of rock solid attitude, a heart full with love, delicate like petals, pure like rain drops, sweet like sugar, glitter like pure gold with compassion & empathy for others.
KIMBERLEY OR KIM is one such  person and I am more than happy to announce her as my first “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)”, please do not forget to visit, comment and subscribe to this UNIQUE BLOG(ER)- Click here.
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NOW TODAY’S POST

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.-Chinese Proverb

When I started this blog, in my wildest ever dream I haven’t  imagined that one day this blog will reach up to the extent of 100 very happy & satisfied friends cum followers, I never imagined that I will receive these much love, affection, admiration, respect, support, care, co-operation from all these wonderful followers cum friends, I never imagined that the persona like me who hardly knows anything about writing will reach up to this extent, a person like me whose English is not up to the mark and still he commits lots of grammatical errors will be receive these much love from all these highly creative, highly talented, most educated, most distinguish, most literate, most sophisticated people of cyber world.

Yes, friends, it is very very true….

Because, when I started this blog; like all of you, I too was very new to the blogging world, I too was very anxious like all of you, I too was exited like all of you, I too was worried like all of you, I too was nervous like all of you, I too was like all of you with lots of self doubt in mind like all of you………….

In short, when I started this blog,

I was not superman or superwoman & still I am not,

I was not super human being & still I am not,

I was not person with extra ordinary talent and still I am not

I was not very knowledgeable person & still I am not,

I was not heroic or heroine type of person & still I am not,

I was not person with any amazing skill or tremendous talents & still I am not,

 

HONESTLY SPEAKING

Still,I am a person with average personality, average intelligence, average writing skill, average general knowledge like every other person on this planet,

So, now question comes, if I was and still I am with lots of lack and limitations, shortcomings and drawbacks

Why I have reach up to this extent?????????

The simple reasons of this question will be very useful to all of us, especially to those who wants overnight success, to those who wants overnight glamour and glory, to those who wants success at the flash of eyes, to those who just built their castles on air, to those who wants too achieve so many things in their life but hardly prepared to change their mind set.

Some of the harsh lessons, I learned during the process are worth to remember…..

BE NOT AFRAID OF GROWING SLOWLY BUT BE AFRAID ONLY OF STANDING STILL;

While reading many posts from my many blogger friends, this is the most shocking facts I came across, many of them were and far more talented than me, many of them are far more creative than me, many of them are far more imaginative than me, many of them are far more learned than me, many of them are far more good at writing and expressive than me in English languages, many of them had and still having dream to create their blog, but they hardly do anything on it.

So, first of all, remember there is a difference between dream and desire, dreams are nothing else but just the fantasy of mind, while desire is something that you want to do it badly, for dreaming you don’t have to do any efforts, but for converting that dream in to desire you have to do something, for dreaming about anything you don’t need to do anything, just sit or sleep and with open or close eyes you can see all the dreams, so, first of all, understand very well that there is a vast difference between dream and desire.

While having any doubt regarding creating your blog, instead of dreaming too much about it, just create it, that’s all, there are two types of pain; first; the things we don’t do, and the things we have done but not going well.

Remember first pain is much more sever and bitter and painful of not doing than the other pain of you have done something but not going well.

So, lesson no. 1 Start something whatever you want to do; instead of just having dream, start to put it in reality.

So, this is the first secret of success in blogging as well as in general life too,

If you want to do something in your life, whether wants to create your own blog, start to your own business, start to pursue any hobby, start it , remember every thousand steps journey starts with one small any tiny steps, for climbing the mountains you have to start from the bottom.

So, this is the one advice, I would like to pass on to all those who are reading this post,

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.

Friends, never ever afraid of growing slowly but be afraid when you feel that you have been standing still like a dead body, you have been standing still like a stone, you have been standing still like deaf and dumb, yes, when you found in this situation it is critical time for you to evaluate and analyse yourself properly.

From my stats; I can see that this blog is viewed by almost all the countries of this planet and still I know from very beginning there are many people following me and out of them many of them might have read my first post and still they are reading my this post and out of them many of them might have thought to create their blog someday and still they are thinking, so, this post is completely dedicated to all these day dreamers,

Oh day dreamers, now stop your procrastination, now silent your inner self doubt, because, I am live example in front of you,

If I can do it why you can’t ???????????

What one quality that I possess an you don’t have it??????????

One characteristic I have and you don’t have it?????????????

only right click other wise CLICK HERE-ARE YOU AFRAID OF MISTAKES

No friends, you are much more smarter, shrewder, talented ,creative, imaginative than me, but, I choose not to stand still and today I am guiding you, today, I am giving advise to you, if you have started your own blog, the situation might had been vise versa, either you might have guided me  or we both might have on equal level but you choose to stand still.

TODAY, I AM ASKING TWO QUESTIONS;

IF YOU ARE READER AND NOT BLOGGER WHAT STOPS YOU TO CREATE YOUR OWN BLOG?

IF YOU ARE BLOGGER WHAT WERE THE INITIAL DOUBTS IN YOUR MIND AND HOW YOU COPE OF WITH IT???????????????????

EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ YOUR STORIES…

WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST

 

As you sow, so shall you reap- PROVERB

As you sow, so shall you reap;

This is very powerful proverb;

Origin’s of it’s found in the religious book-Bible, Galations VI (King Jamesw Version); whatsover a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

But, this powerful proverb also found in Hindu religion with some different meaning under the name of LAW OF KARMA;

“Law of the Karma stipulates; if a person is spreading happiness through charity, good work, being kind and sympathetic toward others it means he/she is sowing the seeds of happiness that will produce the fruits of happiness in present of future”.

The simple meaning of the proverb; As you sow, so shall you reap;

Our life is nothing else but it is just like an agriculture soil; if we want good crop from this soil than we must sow the good seeds in it; because quality and quantity of the crop is completely depends upon the quality and quantity of seeds we have sown.

  • The consequences are always depends upon the action.
  • Our present always makes or helps to make our future.
  • We are only person in this world; responsible for the effects of our actions.

But many a times it happens;

If we do good towards others, even if it doesn’t yield proper result immediately; it does not mean it has gone in vain; we can certainly expect goodness out of it in the future.

SO, FRIENDS; ENJOY THIS POST. 

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If you want more friends in your life;

Be more & more friendlier with others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more enemies in your life;

Be more & more hostile toward others….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more appreciation or admiration by others;

Appreciate or admire others in their life..

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more jealous people around you in your life;

Be more & more jealous toward others for their life…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more co-operation from others;

Be more & more co-operative to others in their life…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want to be loved by all;

Always love to all, unconditional, unselfish…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more care from others;

Be more & more careful as well as caring toward others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more attention from others;

Be more & more attentive toward others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more sympathy from others;

Be more & more sympathetic toward others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more happiness in your life;

Create more & more happiest moments in everyone’s life…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more inspiration in your life;

Be more & more inspirational to others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more help form others in your life;

Be more & more helpful to others in their life….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap. 

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If you want more & more support form others in your life;

Be more & more supportive to others in their life…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more people to understand you properly;

Try to understand them first…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more people to be kind towards you;

Try to be more & more kind toward others first;understand them first…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more joy in your life;

Spread more & more joy in other’s life first…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more quality time of someone in your life;

Spend more & more quality time with them in their life first….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more respect by others in your life;

First of all start to respect others in their life….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more honest people in your life;

Be more & more honest toward others….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more frank people in your life;

Be more & more frank toward others….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more success in your life;

Help more & more people to succeed in their life first…..

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want to achieve more & more goals in your life;

Help more & more people to achieve their goals in their life first….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want to achieve more & more peace in your life;

Deal with others in more & more peaceful manners….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want to achieve more & more prosperity in your life;

Help others to achieve more & more prosperity in your life….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more excitement in your life;

Create more & more excitement in others life first…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more love from GOD in your life;

Love to GOD more & more in your life.

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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THIS TOO SHALL PASS-PROVERB

WARNING: THIS POST CONTAINS SOME ADULT CONTENT; READ IT; AT YOUR OWN RISK.
 
NOTE: “TO MAKE THIS POST MORE REALISTIC AND MORE MEANINGFUL; I HAVE USED POST OF VARIOUS VERY CREATIVE, TALENTED AND BRILLIANT BLOGGERS WITH FULL CREDIT; BUT THAN ALSO; IF ANY OF YOU HAVE ANY OBJECTION REGARDING IT; PLEASE LET ME KNOW; AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE; IN THE COMMENT SECTION OF THIS POST”.
“This too shall pass” is a Hebrew adage or Proverb:
Indicating that all material conditions, positive or negative, are temporary.
It is said an Eastern monarch once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence,
To be ever in view, and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations.
They presented him the words: “And this, too, shall pass away.”
How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction.-wikipedia
“This too shall pass” simple meaning of this powerful proverb;
 “Never ever try to judge the circumstances and situations in it’s present form; because nothing in life is forever or permanent; just flow with life; just swim with the stream of river’’;
  •     Your GRIEF will be also vanish one day like your GLORY..
  •     Your SETBACKS will be also one day vanish like your SUCCESSES…
  •     Your TRAGEDIES will be also one day vanish like your TRIUMPHS
  •     Your HORRIBLE moments of life will be also one day vanish like your HAPPINESS moments….
Means; nothing in life is permanent; so, find out the perfect equilibrium (The state of a reaction in which the rates of the forward and reverse reactions are the same.) with life.
  • Fly with the wind;
  • Swim with stream of river;
  • Enjoy, experience and explore each and every moments of life; like a third person; a eye witness, a sage, monk or saint type of mentality or the theory of detachment where external factors hardly matters your inner piece of your mind.
 
As all of you know; 8th of March-celebrated throughout the world as a “International Women’s day” so, to celebrate this occasion; today I am publishing this post.
 
“This post is dedicated to all the women of world; indeed, some part of this post may hurt you, uncomfortable to read for you; but it is harsh realities of our life and that is what I tried to projected through my writing and some post from the very very talented bloggers”. 
 
So, friends, enjoy this unique post……
                            ***PART-1- THE WEAK OR VICTIM*********
 
  • SITUATION OF RAPE….
 
No matter how much delicate, mild, gentle, tender, weak,pathetic your body is; even small scratch of thorns can hurt you badly, wound you seriously; internally as well as externally; but the same body every now and then throughout the world becomes most favored prey for some rapist;
You are unable to tolerate this trauma;
You are unable to tolerate this tragedy;
And every living moment you are thinking of committing suicide….You want to quit…
BUT….
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
  • SITUATION OF EVE TEASE… 
No matter; how much cautious and careful you are while travelling, while attending public gatherings, social functions, public places, public transportation;despite of your all efforts someone every now and then presses your breasts, rubbing your buttocks with his penis under the pretends of unintentional push from crowd…..
No matter; how much you take care but every nook and corner of the world you will find those; who finds pure pleasure and evil joy to play with his play doll; to tease you, to mock you; to look your body with lots of lust…. 
Each encounter of this nature, creates enormous amount of agony and anger in your mind; you are fed up with this daily occurrence; everyday’s unbearable realities…..You want to quit….
BUT…
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit… 
  • SITUATION OF BEING IGNORED OR HUMILIATED….
 
No matter; how much deeply you know; you didn’t had any control on your birth;
And unfortunately you born in the house of son obsessed, son biased parents and now each and every living moment you are paying the price of their lust, sexual intercourse or torn condom by experiencing it through their verbal abuse, unbearable insult, constant criticism, sarcastic comments, cynical communication, grief gestures, painful postures, body language, glare, glaze, taunt……
Each living moment you want to quit…
BUT;
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
 
  • SITUATION OF DOWRY….
No matter; how much smart you are; no matter how much beautiful you are; no matter how much loving and caring you are; no matter how much you are good as a human being; no matter how much solid character you have;
But your parents doesn’t have enough dowry(Cash, Gold, Car, Big house) to satisfy; hunger of your would-be-husband and his beloved family members or your would-be-in-laws; and due to that you are rejected by countless male….
You are helpless…..you want to quit….
But,
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit…. 
  • YOUR INNER DESIRE TO PURSUE YOUR DREAM……
No matter; how much you desire to pursue your dream; no matter how much you are interested to charter your own path; no matter; how much you are dying and crying to follow your heart ; no matter how much you love your parents and despite of your all sincere  efforts you are unable to explain them; how much you love them; and you are they beloved kid…they don’t understand you or try to understand you…
You want to cry….you want to quit….
But…
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
No matter; how much you want to cry; how much you want to shout, how much you want to scream, how much you want to throw your frustration; but; you are always expected to be mute; to keep silent; to keep your mouth shut; the more you keep silent; the more you keep your mouth shut; the more you obey the rules of society; the more you play the rule of puppets, the more you play the role of deaf and dumb victim; the more you play the role of ego-booster or at the mercy of someone; the more you will be tortured, the more you will be tormented, you want to break this lifelong chain… 
                                  ******* * PART-2 THE WARRIOR******************
 
  • BOUNCE BACK BUT IGNORED…
Now, slowly but steadily you realized crying, shouting, screaming and last but not least quitting is not at all option, you resolved with yourself only and one day you decided;
“Enough is Enough””
“Tit for tat”
And, you just like a; Phoenix bird rise from the ashes; you bounced back, you found new way to live life and this is what you did; one day you informed the world and warned them to be aware, to be alert, to be cautious,  …..
  • TIT FOR TAT…..
Despite of clear cut warning; still, world hardly took any notice of your existence; as always they ignored you, and not only that all the torturing and tormented remain as it was; and one day, you made your intention quiet clear to the world;
HOW DARE YOU???????????????????????????????????????
                                       **********PART-3- THE WINNER**********
Now, you are cool, calm, composed with yourself;  because each incident, each accident, each adversity, each obstacle, each road block, each problems made you much more wiser, much more prudent, much more mature and you found the perfect rhythm of life and despite of all odds, despite of all obstacles, despite of all hardships, despite of all adversity….
  • You proved wrong to all the naysayers
  • You proved wrong to all the people of all world;
  • AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST YOU PROVED TO YOURSELF ONLY;
“I AM WINNER, I AM UNDEFEATED, I AN UNCONQUERABLE, I AM UNCONTROLLABLE”
                                                   *********THE END************
TO ALL THE WOMEN OF WORLD;
Now it is up to ALL OF YOU; what you want to be;
  • THE WEAK OR VICTIM OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
  • THE WARRIOR OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
  • THE WINNER OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST…………………