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“This too shall pass” is a Hebrew adage or Proverb:
Indicating that all material conditions, positive or negative, are temporary.
It is said an Eastern monarch once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence,
To be ever in view, and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations.
They presented him the words: “And this, too, shall pass away.”
How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction.-wikipedia
“This too shall pass” simple meaning of this powerful proverb;
“Never ever try to judge the circumstances and situations in it’s present form; because nothing in life is forever or permanent; just flow with life; just swim with the stream of river’’;
- Your GRIEF will be also vanish one day like your GLORY..
- Your SETBACKS will be also one day vanish like your SUCCESSES…
- Your TRAGEDIES will be also one day vanish like your TRIUMPHS…
- Your HORRIBLE moments of life will be also one day vanish like your HAPPINESS moments….
Means; nothing in life is permanent; so, find out the perfect equilibrium (The state of a reaction in which the rates of the forward and reverse reactions are the same.) with life.
- Fly with the wind;
- Swim with stream of river;
- Enjoy, experience and explore each and every moments of life; like a third person; a eye witness, a sage, monk or saint type of mentality or the theory of detachment where external factors hardly matters your inner piece of your mind.
As all of you know; 8th of March-celebrated throughout the world as a “International Women’s day” so, to celebrate this occasion; today I am publishing this post.
“This post is dedicated to all the women of world; indeed, some part of this post may hurt you, uncomfortable to read for you; but it is harsh realities of our life and that is what I tried to projected through my writing and some post from the very very talented bloggers”.
So, friends, enjoy this unique post……
***PART-1- THE WEAK OR VICTIM*********
- SITUATION OF RAPE….
No matter how much delicate, mild, gentle, tender, weak,pathetic your body is; even small scratch of thorns can hurt you badly, wound you seriously; internally as well as externally; but the same body every now and then throughout the world becomes most favored prey for some rapist;
You are unable to tolerate this trauma;
You are unable to tolerate this tragedy;
And every living moment you are thinking of committing suicide….You want to quit…
BUT….
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
- SITUATION OF EVE TEASE…
No matter; how much cautious and careful you are while travelling, while attending public gatherings, social functions, public places, public transportation;despite of your all efforts someone every now and then presses your breasts, rubbing your buttocks with his penis under the pretends of unintentional push from crowd…..
No matter; how much you take care but every nook and corner of the world you will find those; who finds pure pleasure and evil joy to play with his play doll; to tease you, to mock you; to look your body with lots of lust….
Each encounter of this nature, creates enormous amount of agony and anger in your mind; you are fed up with this daily occurrence; everyday’s unbearable realities…..You want to quit….
BUT…
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit…
- SITUATION OF BEING IGNORED OR HUMILIATED….
No matter; how much deeply you know; you didn’t had any control on your birth;
And unfortunately you born in the house of son obsessed, son biased parents and now each and every living moment you are paying the price of their lust, sexual intercourse or torn condom by experiencing it through their verbal abuse, unbearable insult, constant criticism, sarcastic comments, cynical communication, grief gestures, painful postures, body language, glare, glaze, taunt……
Each living moment you want to quit…
BUT;
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
- SITUATION OF DOWRY….
No matter; how much smart you are; no matter how much beautiful you are; no matter how much loving and caring you are; no matter how much you are good as a human being; no matter how much solid character you have;
But your parents doesn’t have enough dowry(Cash, Gold, Car, Big house) to satisfy; hunger of your would-be-husband and his beloved family members or your would-be-in-laws; and due to that you are rejected by countless male….
You are helpless…..you want to quit….
But,
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
- YOUR INNER DESIRE TO PURSUE YOUR DREAM……
No matter; how much you desire to pursue your dream; no matter how much you are interested to charter your own path; no matter; how much you are dying and crying to follow your heart ; no matter how much you love your parents and despite of your all sincere efforts you are unable to explain them; how much you love them; and you are they beloved kid…they don’t understand you or try to understand you…
You want to cry….you want to quit….
But…
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
No matter; how much you want to cry; how much you want to shout, how much you want to scream, how much you want to throw your frustration; but; you are always expected to be mute; to keep silent; to keep your mouth shut; the more you keep silent; the more you keep your mouth shut; the more you obey the rules of society; the more you play the rule of puppets, the more you play the role of deaf and dumb victim; the more you play the role of ego-booster or at the mercy of someone; the more you will be tortured, the more you will be tormented, you want to break this lifelong chain…
******* * PART-2 THE WARRIOR******************
- BOUNCE BACK BUT IGNORED…
Now, slowly but steadily you realized crying, shouting, screaming and last but not least quitting is not at all option, you resolved with yourself only and one day you decided;
“Enough is Enough””
“Tit for tat”
And, you just like a; Phoenix bird rise from the ashes; you bounced back, you found new way to live life and this is what you did; one day you informed the world and warned them to be aware, to be alert, to be cautious, …..
- TIT FOR TAT…..
Despite of clear cut warning; still, world hardly took any notice of your existence; as always they ignored you, and not only that all the torturing and tormented remain as it was; and one day, you made your intention quiet clear to the world;
HOW DARE YOU???????????????????????????????????????
**********PART-3- THE WINNER**********
Now, you are cool, calm, composed with yourself; because each incident, each accident, each adversity, each obstacle, each road block, each problems made you much more wiser, much more prudent, much more mature and you found the perfect rhythm of life and despite of all odds, despite of all obstacles, despite of all hardships, despite of all adversity….
- You proved wrong to all the naysayers
- You proved wrong to all the people of all world;
- AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST YOU PROVED TO YOURSELF ONLY;
“I AM WINNER, I AM UNDEFEATED, I AN UNCONQUERABLE, I AM UNCONTROLLABLE”
*********THE END************
TO ALL THE WOMEN OF WORLD;
Now it is up to ALL OF YOU; what you want to be;
- THE WEAK OR VICTIM OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
- THE WARRIOR OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
- THE WINNER OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST…………………
QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS 
Swajith,
I’m really grateful to you for writing such an intense post. Indeed, we shall bid farewell to the bad times that we are faced with today.
God bless you,
Yashika
Yashika;
First of all thanks for visit, reading and comment on this post.
Second; I must be thankful to you as well as other blogger’s whose post I have featured in this post; because, without you people’s this wonderful,creative, thoughtful, thought-provoking and absolutely amazing post, my post might not be much more meaningful, realistic and relevant; so, each of you deserve due credit.
NOW MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION TO YOU:
what you want to be;
THE WEAK OR VICTIM OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
THE WARRIOR OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
THE WINNER OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ YOUR REPLY; PLEASE REPLY ME AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE; YOUR REPLY CONSTANTLY REMIND IT TO YOU; WHEN YOU LOST YOUR PATH; SO, PLEASE REPLY IT HERE ONLY…..
Swajith,
I would never lower my head because of weakness. So, the first option is deleted.
Winning always is not always a certainty. So, I’ll keep the third option at standby.
I choose and strive to become a warrior so that I can face every obstacle that is presented to me with courage and determination to fight a just fight, to learn from my mistakes and to eventually become victorious.
Yashika 🙂
Yashika;
This is the fighting-spirit, this is the killer-instinct, this is the ‘Do-or-Die’, this is the ‘fight till finish’ kind of the attitude you have presented through your reply; and I am more than happy to admit you that you have rock solid determination, god-gifted talent and best part humble and frank nature; so, I don’t think there are any dream, there are any wish, there are desire can be difficult for the person like you. So; thanks for writing it here; during the time of setbacks, during the time of your weak-moments, during the time of your defeats, visit this post and constantly remind yourself that you have promised to someone(ME).
Eagerly awaiting to read something about your exams; I wish due to grace of GOD as well as your hard-work and preparation it must be going well.
TAKE CARE….
GOD BLESS TO LITTLE & LOVELY PRINCESS…..
Wishing you all the best…………..
Thanks a lot! My best wishes are always with you. 🙂
Swajithkas,
Thank you for reminding me again that all material things are temporary. It is finals week and I have a 14 page paper due, as well as several job interviews to attend. This week is certainly busy and I cannot wait until this week passes haha. Thank you for writing this post! I wish you well.
Warm regards,
Stephanie
Stephani;
Can you believe I have written this post for you only???????????
Your comment on my blog’s “ABOUT” page inspired me to write this post; so, you are truly my “SOURCE OF MY INSPIRATION” for writing this post.
This is old quotation;
“Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife”.-
Groucho Marx
THIS IS NEW QUOTATION WRITTEN BY ME;
“Behind my every good post there is a loyal friend, avid reader,wonderful person named STEPHANIE”.
As always eagerly awaiting to read some good news about your exams because still you have not written me about your final result and don’t worry about your job interview; because, there is always dearth of talent at corporate level; so,there is a plenty of chances for the self-driven, self-motivated, hard working, honest, humble, sincere, committed & dedicated person like you.
I wish, very soon you will break some good news in this front.
As always wishing you all the best from the bottom of my heart; where ever you are, where ever you will be, I wish your life become road of roses.
Swajithkas,
I can finally say that I have successfully completed all of my exams and I got the job that I was interviewed for! After a long term, I have been unplugged for the past few days. It feels so good to not have to be staring at a computer all day haha. I will be starting my new job next week, so I’m excited for it! How has life been treating you? I hope that you are well~
Stephanie;
First of all thanks for one more visit; your each visit makes me happy.
Second; thanks for sharing good news on each and every front.
It is indeed good news to hear about your progress in your educational life; believe me, I prayed to GOD for your successful completion of exams, my prayer as well as your hard work yield the result and in bonus you have given me good news about finding your job too.
So, now, I am most happiest person on the earth; because, when, my any good friend achieve something good in their life, I feel tremendous joy, happiness in my heart.
But, remember one more thing, you are destined to achieve some more bigger,better and worthy goals so never ever be complacent with your small successes.
Wishing you all the best……………..
Thank you Swajithkas. What have you been up to in life? 🙂 I hope that you are doing well!
Stephanie;
Thanks for your concern;
“DUE TO GRACE OF GOD AND WELL WISHES OF FRIENDS LIKE YOU; I AM ENJOYING EACH & EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE”.
PLEASE TAKE CARE………….
WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST…..
Thank You for sharing! It is truly inspiring. My heart goes out to all of the people suffering in any way. It takes true strength to keep going and know it’s possible to find beauty even in the ugliness.
And it takes true courage to share our stories to help touch others for the better.
“You can be greater than anything that can happen to you.” ~ Norman Vincent Peale ❤
Kim;
First of all thanks for visit, reading and comment on this post.
I am absolutely grateful to you for your wonderful friendly gesture; I wish more often blogger of your stature, class, quality, talent and amazing writing ability will visit my blog.
I am big fan of your blog and your amazing inspiring spirit; generally, we are communicating with each other every now and then; but then also; today; I would like to ask you…..
NOW MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION TO YOU:
what you want to be????????????????????;
THE WEAK OR VICTIM OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
THE WARRIOR OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
THE WINNER OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ YOUR REPLY; PLEASE REPLY ME AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE; YOUR REPLY CONSTANTLY REMIND IT TO YOU; WHEN YOU LOST YOUR PATH; SO, PLEASE REPLY IT HERE ONLY….
wishing you all the best…………………..
Thank You so much!! I agree that we all have some power over our situations, even if that power is just to work on our attitude. My philosophy of life is not to have a victim mentality no matter how difficult a situation is. Sometimes I falter and think negatively but I remind myself that I can choose how to react. We can all choose to be winners! 😀
Thank you Swajith, for that painstaking effort to put together lovely blogposts from feisty writers. It takes a huge heart to promote somebody else’s post with such warmth, it takes patience to cull them together, it takes courage to give forward optimism.
Dr.Sweety;
First of all thanks for your visit,reading and comment on this post.
It gives me immense pleasure to see your presence in my post.
After reading your comment I am bit confused; what should I appreciate first;
Your very nice encouraging, uplifting and very thoughtful comment?
Or trying to understand my situation; that how much efforts and energy it needs to construct such a post; you are absolutely right; I worked hard to make this post as much authentic, realistic and uplifting as much possible and for that I visited many blogs, read countless posts and scrutinized each one in the accordance with the subject matter.
But your this remarkable comment clearly mention that the efforts and energy is clearly noticed by the avid, sharp and brilliant bloggers like you; like you I am too hard working person; so, whenever, I read any post, the first thing I notice about how much efforts bloggers have put behind this post.
Wishing you all the best……..
Yes, the efforts were very evident. You not just chose a theme, but also chose voices that were in sync with that theme and every voice had a common thread yet had variations. You deserve much praise for it. Cheers!
Dr.Sweety;
It is nothing else, but conscious efforts to learn from the knowledgeable, effective, efficient, powerful and very creative bloggers like you; In fact, it is the effect of your company, which certainly making some difference in my blogging style; so, if by any means I am doing good work; entire credit goes to people or bloggers like you only.
Wishing you all the best……………..
My, my! I’m flattered. Ur great enough on ur own. Go for it!
Well said. We absolutely need to remember this. It’s our Free Will that makes each of us capable of strength and enduring love. Thank you for the reminder.
Sabrina;
First of all thanks a lot for your visit,reading and comment on this post.
It gives me immense pleasure to see that qualitative, class and very brilliant blogger of your stature visited my post and comment on my post.
I am absolutely grateful to you for your wonderful and encouraging friendly gesture; I wish, in future, we should visit each other’s blog more often; because, for me blogging is all about connecting with like minded friends and you certainly qualifies on that category; so, thanks for starting communication.
Do I need to say, how much I like your blog and well-written posts?
Wishing you all the best………………………..
Great post. I agree that no matter how many horrible situations we go through, those situations pass and we become stronger. Life is full of good and bad people, and everyone goes through difficult situations. It’s all a matter of fighting through the dark times.
Rebecca;
First of all thanks a lot for your visit,reading and comment on this post.
I am absolutely thankful to you for your this very friendly gesture.
I am completely agree with your comment; yes, from time to time, each of us passes through the various roads of life, some times road may not as good as our expectations but somehow we have to or we need to go through it; because, many a times in our life we don’t have any alternatives or options; so, at that time to live the life; with the above mention proverb gives us courage and sustaining spirit to go through the rough patches of life.
I wish we both visit each other’s blog more often and comment on each other’s blog; because, as you see, I am not very much active in any other social media, so, our blog and blogpost’s comment section is my only mode of communication to have a conversation with good friends like you.
Wishing you all the best……………..
You’re very welcome. That sounds good. I look forward to reading your future posts. Thanks again for the follow and comments!
Rebecca;
Same to you.
Wishing you all the best.
Thank you. 🙂
Wow! What a great post! Thank you for sharing 🙂
Thanks for your visit, reading and comment on this post.
Wishing you all the best…………………………..
No prob! We were happy to do it. Let us know about more of your blogs!
What a beautiful post! The strength we all have to be able to overcome such hardships is mind blowing. Yet, no matter what the trouble is, we still find ways to survive another day. And sometimes, just surviving one day is a victory in itself. Eventually those daily victories turn into the future when finally, the hurdle has been jumped, mountain climbed, and we’re soaring high. Again, great post, I really enjoyed reading it!
Chelesea;
First of all thanks a lot for your visit, reading and comment on this post.
I am very much thankful for your this wonderful friendly gesture.
I am completely agree with your above comments; yes, we are beloved kids of GOD and many a times despite of our all sincere efforts we may have to pass some of the unavoidable situations and circumstances of life; so, in that trying and testing time we have to keep going on; no matter, how much going get seems tough and rough; but with our sincere efforts and blessings of almighty we can overcome any obstacles.
Can you please reply me below question;
NOW MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION TO YOU:
what you want to be;
THE WEAK OR VICTIM OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
THE WARRIOR OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
THE WINNER OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ YOUR REPLY; PLEASE REPLY ME AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE; YOUR REPLY WILLl CONSTANTLY REMIND IT TO YOU; WHEN YOU LOST YOUR PATH; SO, PLEASE REPLY IT HERE ONLY….
That’s a very thought provoking post. It’s interesting how you connect popular sayings to religion and spirituality.
One small suggestion: Have you considered going through a style guide? I can recommend Merriam Webster.
Jeannie;
First of all thanks a lot for your visit, reading and comment on this post.
It gives me immense pleasure to see your frequent visit at my blog; I wish, slowly but very steadily we are building very promising, cordial, mutual and supportive blogging friendship with each other. I wish, after each passing day this relationship strengthen as solid as possible.
Thanks for your very encouraging comments & valuable suggestions.
I appreciate your keen interest in my blog; but, I am unable to understand what do you mean by going through a style guide; I have gone through Merriam Webster and studied it properly but unable to understand it properly; so, will you be kind enough to explain me it in detail; whenever you have spare time.
Wishing you all the best………
Hey Swajithkas,
I enjoy your blog and do look forward to reading more of it.
By style guide, I meant using a punctuation and style guide, my personal preference being Merriam Webster, but you can choose any one that you like as I’ve noticed that your blog has a tendency to have grammatical errors. I mean this only as constructive criticism and not judgement.
Jeannie;
From bottom of my heart I appreciate your feedback.
Believe me; by this comment you have proved that you are my true friend; there are cent percent validity in your feedback. I openly confess that my grammar is very poor; because, English is my second language; and if I tell you I don’t have any formal education in English language you will be surprised; but it’s true.
Second; No doubt, there are many tools and techniques are there were after preparing the primary draft of your post you can verify it from the grammatical errors; but believe me, it is not laziness or carelessness from my part; but, time constraint is always is there; because if you go through my any post; you will find two things; first, my posts are always lengthy and second it is always based on some research work, relevant data; so, my maximum time goes behind this activities and remaining time goes for editing; because, at present I have primary goal in my mind that at any cost and any how this blog must be going on.
So, this is my explanations.
Now, as a friend do I have any right to ask your favor?
If it is please reply this comment; because, I am quiet eager to rectify my this mistake and good friend like you will help me, I will be grateful to you.
Wishing you all the best to my one of the best friend-Jeannie.
Smooth seas don’t make great sailors ,so never say “why me ?”
always say ” Try me! ” ,if life throws you infront of hounds it will make sure you there’s a way out and you are only there till you learn your lesson .
This cycle of good and bad makes you confident to face the bad but not making you over-confident so as you treat the good with humility .
stay positive always !
SWEET WHISPER
Silently, I sat on the floor, while my heart struggled with the weight of uncertainties.
While my mind gazed into space, a make believe smile masked my face, I held back my tears; all along wondering: “What…? Where…? And How…?”
Then, unexpectedly, I felt the touch of a tiny hand upon my right shoulder.
As he dropped his knees next to me, he pressed his little chest against my back, then whispered:“I will always be here for you!”
My five year old grandson, while he ran out of the room, had stopped,
As he turned back with a smile, then blew me a kiss.
His “Sweet Whisper,” once more, caused me to smile;
Helped me to embrace, a glimpse of hope.
Nadège Moïse
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Well, I read it like I promised. And I needed that greatly. Thank you for sharing with me 🙂
Mikalya,
Thanks a lot for your visit,reading and comment on this post.
It gives me immense pleasure to read that creative and versatile blogger of your class and quality read my post and like it.
You made my day!!!!!!!!!!
I wish, everyday should be like this…………….
Wishing you all the best,
Haha well I wouldn’t go that far! I’m not the best writer, and I am still very new to writing. But thank you so much for your kind words. And I will make an effort yo check you blog when I can 🙂
Well beginning is half done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your beginning is so far good, I am quiet confident about you, every passing day, you will get better and better………….
Thank you 🙂
Same to you, for keeping promise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!