PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT-proverb

THIS IS SECOND POST OF SERIES; MY JOURNEY FROM 0 TO 100 FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS (for reading previous post right click here)

Today’s post;

PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT-proverb

There are many reasons of failures; some of them are worth to mention;

  • LACK OF PRACTICE
  • NEGATIVE PERSONALITY
  • PROCRASTINATION
  • LACK OF ENTHUSIASM
  • LACK OF CONCENTRATION OF EFFORT
  • OVER-CAUTION
  • LACK OF SELF-DISCIPLINE
  • LACK OF A WELL-DEFINED PURPOSE IN LIFE
  • INABILITY TO COOPERATE WITH OTHERS
  • LACK OF AMBITION TO AIM ABOVE MEDIOCRITY
  • WRONG SELECTION OF A VOCATION
  • SUPERSTITION AND PREJUDICE
  • INSUFFICIENT EDUCATION
  • LACK OF A WELL DEFINED POWER OF DECISION
  • ILL HEALTH

But out of all; do you know which one reason I consider most influential, most powerful, and most responsible for someone’s failure??????????

LACK OF PRACTICE;

Yes, lack of practice is one factor, I consider most responsible in someone’s failure. Practice-This simple looking virtue can fundamentally affect our success or failure in each and every endeavor of life and same applies in our blogging life too. After having one and half years experience in blogging life, after publishing 27 posts on my blog, after receiving 451 comments on my blog, after having hundreds of likes on my various posts, after nominated for many awards after passing thousands comments on various blogs

What one lesson I learned????????????????

Practice……Practice…….Practice………Practice……..Practice……..Practice……..Practice…….

The more I practice the more it build up my confidence, the more I practice the more it improvise my skill, the more I practice the more it improvise my speed, the more I practice the more it improvise my productivity.

In short; when I started my blog at that time I had 0 followers cum friends and today I have more than 100 + followers cum friends and major credit goes to my regular practice in each and every sphere of blogging, whether it is publishing post, replying to the comments on my blog, or commenting on my many friend’s blog this simple virtue of regular practice helped me a lot.

  • Practice means to perform, over and over again without being frustrated or losing enthusiasm in the face of all obstacles, some act of vision, of faith, of desire.
  • We cannot be perfect on the very first try; In the face of frustration, in the face of failures our best tool is a few deep breaths, and remembering that we can do anything and everything if we practice hard.
  • Practice is an exercise, practice is mantra it simply tunes both our physical and mental entities to the required frequency that helps us to lead towards perfection.
  • Practice is one such tool which sharpens & strengthens our abilities and capabilities beyond our capacities in pursuit of our worthy goal.
  • Practice awakens the lethargic or dormant potential we have and induces confidence and that confidence helps us to succeed in any task.
  • To practice is to meditate in positive and negative situation.

Concluding part or summary or morale of the story; we have to be aware of the fact that without planned and constant practice, it is next to possible to reach to achieve goals. So perfection and practice go simultaneously that is why practice makes a man perfect.

“Today, I am asking one simple question to all of you, out of all above reasons of failures which one relates you more and what is your counter strategy to deal with it”??????????

LET US BE HONEST IN OUR OWN EVALUATION BECAUSE PREREQUISITE CONDITION OF SUCCESS IS TO CONFESS OUR WEAKNESS OPENLY AND WITHOUT ANY SHAME….

Regarding today’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER); I don’t have any word to describe, you just visit and write whatever you feel in comment section of it…Let us be a human being, let us enlarge our heart, let us experience someone’s pain, and let us create few moments of happiness in someone’s life, because as you know as you sow so shall you reap (right click here)

ONE SINCERE,POLITE & VERY HUMBLE REQUEST TO MY ALL THE FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS, ALL OF YOU MUST VISIT THIS UNIQUE BLOG(ER) AND WRITE ONE OF THE MOST INSPIRATIONAL COMMENT OF YOUR LIFE IN THE COMMENT SECTION OF THIS POST.

I WISH, EACH ONE OF YOU ARE VERY LIVE HUMAN BEING SO YOU KNOW VERY WELL WHAT TO DO IN THIS KIND OF SITUATIONS AND CIRCUMSTANCES………

Today’s (Right click here) UNIQUE BLOG(ER) 

 

 

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still. Chinese Proverb

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Read it with undivided attention, complete focus & complete presence of mind, otherwise you will miss one very very important news.
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100 FOLLOWERS cum FRIENDS………………100 FOLLOWERS cum FRIENDS
On this auspicious, joyous & cheerful occasion, to thank all the followers cum friends, readers & well wisher; the blog has issued this statement.
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ON THIS OCCASION THE BLOG HAS ANNOUNCED TWO IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENTS….
ANNOUNCEMENT NO: 1
Recently (or date) my “followers cum friends” subscription base has reached magic number of 100;
To document my journey from 0 to 100 followers I will publish nearly 8 to 10 posts twice in a month-(1- 15 & 15-30) in this regard; it will explain you “how you too can reach 100 followers in very short time”? with the help of suitable QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS In easy-to-understand manner; under the series;
FROM 0 to 100-FOLLOWERS- IF I CAN, YOU TOO CAN ACHIEVE IT
ANNOUNCEMENT NO: 2
“UNIQUE BLOG(ER) SECTION”
I reached here by you people- my follower cum friend’s constant love, affection, support, kindness, co-operation, feedback and loyalty, yes, it’s very true, and so, when you people helped me to reach here I too will help you too reach there.
So, from this post, I am starting one section, “UNIQUE BLOG(ER) SECTION” Under this section once or twice in month, I will promote or feature one UNIQUE BLOG(ER) from my followers cum friends list with brief description as well as URL of blog.
QUALIFYING CRITERIA;
Blogger must me follower of my blog.
Bloggers involvement with my blog by commenting or participating in various posts & discussions.
Uniqueness, creativity, writing style, subject matter, way of presentation and overall quality of posts and content will be the major criteria for qualifying
Based on above criteria, from this post only I have started to feature “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)”, so, do not forget to visit this section placed at the end of this, who knows you, or your blog may be featured or promoted here under UNIQUE BLOG(ER).
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                                               “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)
When you imagine meeting any person in real or cyber world suffering from early childhood as a serious patient of DEPRESSION with suicidal tendency, what can you expect from him/her?????
A sad & gloomy face, overall sadness, life-less eyes, lack of interest in pleasurable or any normal activity, constant worry & anxiety, hardly exited or enthusiastic about anything in life, negative mentality, overall hopeless attitude towards life, obsessive ruminations, this is what we imagine in our mind when we meet such a person in real or cyber world.
But there are some exceptional people, who completely break all these barriers and instead of defeated by depression, they are defeating depression, instead of dominated by depression they are dominating depression with their do or die, fight to finish, killer instinct kind of rock solid attitude, a heart full with love, delicate like petals, pure like rain drops, sweet like sugar, glitter like pure gold with compassion & empathy for others.
KIMBERLEY OR KIM is one such  person and I am more than happy to announce her as my first “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)”, please do not forget to visit, comment and subscribe to this UNIQUE BLOG(ER)- Click here.
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NOW TODAY’S POST

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.-Chinese Proverb

When I started this blog, in my wildest ever dream I haven’t  imagined that one day this blog will reach up to the extent of 100 very happy & satisfied friends cum followers, I never imagined that I will receive these much love, affection, admiration, respect, support, care, co-operation from all these wonderful followers cum friends, I never imagined that the persona like me who hardly knows anything about writing will reach up to this extent, a person like me whose English is not up to the mark and still he commits lots of grammatical errors will be receive these much love from all these highly creative, highly talented, most educated, most distinguish, most literate, most sophisticated people of cyber world.

Yes, friends, it is very very true….

Because, when I started this blog; like all of you, I too was very new to the blogging world, I too was very anxious like all of you, I too was exited like all of you, I too was worried like all of you, I too was nervous like all of you, I too was like all of you with lots of self doubt in mind like all of you………….

In short, when I started this blog,

I was not superman or superwoman & still I am not,

I was not super human being & still I am not,

I was not person with extra ordinary talent and still I am not

I was not very knowledgeable person & still I am not,

I was not heroic or heroine type of person & still I am not,

I was not person with any amazing skill or tremendous talents & still I am not,

 

HONESTLY SPEAKING

Still,I am a person with average personality, average intelligence, average writing skill, average general knowledge like every other person on this planet,

So, now question comes, if I was and still I am with lots of lack and limitations, shortcomings and drawbacks

Why I have reach up to this extent?????????

The simple reasons of this question will be very useful to all of us, especially to those who wants overnight success, to those who wants overnight glamour and glory, to those who wants success at the flash of eyes, to those who just built their castles on air, to those who wants too achieve so many things in their life but hardly prepared to change their mind set.

Some of the harsh lessons, I learned during the process are worth to remember…..

BE NOT AFRAID OF GROWING SLOWLY BUT BE AFRAID ONLY OF STANDING STILL;

While reading many posts from my many blogger friends, this is the most shocking facts I came across, many of them were and far more talented than me, many of them are far more creative than me, many of them are far more imaginative than me, many of them are far more learned than me, many of them are far more good at writing and expressive than me in English languages, many of them had and still having dream to create their blog, but they hardly do anything on it.

So, first of all, remember there is a difference between dream and desire, dreams are nothing else but just the fantasy of mind, while desire is something that you want to do it badly, for dreaming you don’t have to do any efforts, but for converting that dream in to desire you have to do something, for dreaming about anything you don’t need to do anything, just sit or sleep and with open or close eyes you can see all the dreams, so, first of all, understand very well that there is a vast difference between dream and desire.

While having any doubt regarding creating your blog, instead of dreaming too much about it, just create it, that’s all, there are two types of pain; first; the things we don’t do, and the things we have done but not going well.

Remember first pain is much more sever and bitter and painful of not doing than the other pain of you have done something but not going well.

So, lesson no. 1 Start something whatever you want to do; instead of just having dream, start to put it in reality.

So, this is the first secret of success in blogging as well as in general life too,

If you want to do something in your life, whether wants to create your own blog, start to your own business, start to pursue any hobby, start it , remember every thousand steps journey starts with one small any tiny steps, for climbing the mountains you have to start from the bottom.

So, this is the one advice, I would like to pass on to all those who are reading this post,

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.

Friends, never ever afraid of growing slowly but be afraid when you feel that you have been standing still like a dead body, you have been standing still like a stone, you have been standing still like deaf and dumb, yes, when you found in this situation it is critical time for you to evaluate and analyse yourself properly.

From my stats; I can see that this blog is viewed by almost all the countries of this planet and still I know from very beginning there are many people following me and out of them many of them might have read my first post and still they are reading my this post and out of them many of them might have thought to create their blog someday and still they are thinking, so, this post is completely dedicated to all these day dreamers,

Oh day dreamers, now stop your procrastination, now silent your inner self doubt, because, I am live example in front of you,

If I can do it why you can’t ???????????

What one quality that I possess an you don’t have it??????????

One characteristic I have and you don’t have it?????????????

only right click other wise CLICK HERE-ARE YOU AFRAID OF MISTAKES

No friends, you are much more smarter, shrewder, talented ,creative, imaginative than me, but, I choose not to stand still and today I am guiding you, today, I am giving advise to you, if you have started your own blog, the situation might had been vise versa, either you might have guided me  or we both might have on equal level but you choose to stand still.

TODAY, I AM ASKING TWO QUESTIONS;

IF YOU ARE READER AND NOT BLOGGER WHAT STOPS YOU TO CREATE YOUR OWN BLOG?

IF YOU ARE BLOGGER WHAT WERE THE INITIAL DOUBTS IN YOUR MIND AND HOW YOU COPE OF WITH IT???????????????????

EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ YOUR STORIES…

WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST

 

BLESSING IN DISGUISE-IDIOMS

CAN ALL OF YOU PLEASE HELP ME TO COMPLETE THIS POST??

BLESSING IN DISGUISE-IDIOMS;

The simple meaning of this idiom;

  • There are many matters, accidents & event happens in our life; which at first sight or from primary observation seems unfortunate,painful, sad, unexpected,unwanted, unpleasant BUT after some time the same event, the same accident, the same matter turn out as a blessing instead of curse; it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • Something good that isn’t recognized at first sight or primary observation; it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • Something that at first seems bad or unfortunate,but later on turns out to be most beneficial,most fruitful event of our life;it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • A misfortune or we may perceive as a misfortune that unexpectedly turns into good fortune or life changing or turning point of our life;it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • Something that seems bad,terrible,unlucky or inauspicious at first,but later on results in something good,fruitful or most rewarding later on;it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • We can say something is a BLESSING IN DISGUISE, if it appears to be bad at first, but it results in something very good in the end.

SO, NOW ALL OF YOU KNOW VERY WELL, WHAT IS THE MEANING OF BLESSING IN DISGUISE.

CAN ALL OF YOU PLEASE HELP ME TO COMPLETE THIS POST???

“As all of you know very well, I run this blog but I never-ever treated it as an exclusive my own blog but I always treated this blog as OUR BLOG, so, it’s not about me only but it’s always about all of us”.

“To maintain this spirit alive, I regularly publish some posts where we can share our stories with each other; because I firmly believe that your stories and your wisdom are as valuable as mine”.

So, today, I am publishing this post; which can not OR I cannot imagine to complete without all of you wonderful,talented, creative and amazing people.

“So, what I request to all of you; write one such event of your life in comment section which appeared bad at first but later on turned our good at the end”.

HOW YOU CAN HELP ME TO COMPLETE THIS POST????????????

  • There is no hard and fast rules; you can write anything you want to write; keeping the title of subject BLESSING IN DISGUISE in mind without having any constrain in mind about ANY SPECIFIC WORD LIMIT OR SPECIFIC SPACE LIMIT; you can write as much as you wish.
  • But for those who need more guidance; these are the few topics or points upon which you can write.

UNEMPLOYMENT;During the time of unemployment of finding the job; you pursue some hobby or attended some classes or learned something and later on it opened vast world of unknown opportunities in front of you.

GETTING FIRED;Despite of your all the sincere efforts,commitments, dedication or hard-work you fired from your job and you find another most rewarding or dream job of your life, or started something small as your own business and now enjoying each and every moments of your life.

ILLNESS;During the time of small or major illness of yours or your near & dear one’s you found new meaning of life; spiritually,personally or professionally which entirely change your perception of life.

DUMPED BY YOUR EX;Despite of all your unconditional & unselfish love, enough caring & sharing, enough attentive towards that single person of life; with whom you have planned to spend your whole life and all of sudden; you are dumped by your EX(BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND) and you found someone more amazing and awesome and now; after sometime you realized that whatever happened was one of the most wonderful moment of your life.

CHANGE IN LIVING CONDITION;Your parents separated from each other and currently you are living as child of single parent and found new way of living your life.

CHANGE IN YOUR COMFORT ZONE;For further education you left your comfort zone and ventured in unknown territory; initially you were very reluctant to take the plunge but now you are enjoying each and every living moments of it.

DEATH OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBER, FRIEND OR YOUR FAVORITE PET;Initially, it was quiet hard to accept the realities but slowly and steadily you digested it and now you found some one who may not replace all the damage but at least it gives you some consolation.

MARITAL SEPARATION OR DIVORCE;Going through this situation of life or have gone through it and after entire experience it turn out as a one of the most relieving incident of your life.

You were absolutely in hurry and found closed off road and compulsory you had to take another route and found something amazing.

Unexpected delays of flights,bus or your usual mode of transportation delayed in it and due to it you found something absolutely amazing OR MISSED OPPORTUNITIES, SETBACKS-Which temporarily devastated you but in larger scheme of life turn out as a blessing of GOD.

So, friends, now on wards, try noticing some of your inconveniences or dig down in your past or look back on old ones, see the things or matters from different perspective and you will truly understand the meaning of BLESSING IN DISGUISE”.

EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ SOME VERY VERY INTERESTING STORIES FROM EACH ONE OF YOU; LET ME TELL YOU ONE SECRET; I AM VERY SINCERELY FOLLOWING BLOG OF EACH ONE OF YOU AND READING EACH POST WRITTEN BY ALL OF YOU; SO I KNOW VERY WELL EACH ONE OF YOU HAVE SOME STORIES TO TELL.

Wishing you all the best………………………

 

 

As you sow, so shall you reap- PROVERB

As you sow, so shall you reap;

This is very powerful proverb;

Origin’s of it’s found in the religious book-Bible, Galations VI (King Jamesw Version); whatsover a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

But, this powerful proverb also found in Hindu religion with some different meaning under the name of LAW OF KARMA;

“Law of the Karma stipulates; if a person is spreading happiness through charity, good work, being kind and sympathetic toward others it means he/she is sowing the seeds of happiness that will produce the fruits of happiness in present of future”.

The simple meaning of the proverb; As you sow, so shall you reap;

Our life is nothing else but it is just like an agriculture soil; if we want good crop from this soil than we must sow the good seeds in it; because quality and quantity of the crop is completely depends upon the quality and quantity of seeds we have sown.

  • The consequences are always depends upon the action.
  • Our present always makes or helps to make our future.
  • We are only person in this world; responsible for the effects of our actions.

But many a times it happens;

If we do good towards others, even if it doesn’t yield proper result immediately; it does not mean it has gone in vain; we can certainly expect goodness out of it in the future.

SO, FRIENDS; ENJOY THIS POST. 

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If you want more friends in your life;

Be more & more friendlier with others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more enemies in your life;

Be more & more hostile toward others….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more appreciation or admiration by others;

Appreciate or admire others in their life..

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more jealous people around you in your life;

Be more & more jealous toward others for their life…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more co-operation from others;

Be more & more co-operative to others in their life…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want to be loved by all;

Always love to all, unconditional, unselfish…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more care from others;

Be more & more careful as well as caring toward others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more attention from others;

Be more & more attentive toward others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more sympathy from others;

Be more & more sympathetic toward others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more happiness in your life;

Create more & more happiest moments in everyone’s life…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more inspiration in your life;

Be more & more inspirational to others…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more help form others in your life;

Be more & more helpful to others in their life….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap. 

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If you want more & more support form others in your life;

Be more & more supportive to others in their life…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more people to understand you properly;

Try to understand them first…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more people to be kind towards you;

Try to be more & more kind toward others first;understand them first…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more joy in your life;

Spread more & more joy in other’s life first…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more quality time of someone in your life;

Spend more & more quality time with them in their life first….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more respect by others in your life;

First of all start to respect others in their life….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more honest people in your life;

Be more & more honest toward others….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more frank people in your life;

Be more & more frank toward others….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more success in your life;

Help more & more people to succeed in their life first…..

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want to achieve more & more goals in your life;

Help more & more people to achieve their goals in their life first….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want to achieve more & more peace in your life;

Deal with others in more & more peaceful manners….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want to achieve more & more prosperity in your life;

Help others to achieve more & more prosperity in your life….

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more excitement in your life;

Create more & more excitement in others life first…

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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If you want more & more love from GOD in your life;

Love to GOD more & more in your life.

Because;

As you sow, so shall you reap.

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THIS TOO SHALL PASS-PROVERB

WARNING: THIS POST CONTAINS SOME ADULT CONTENT; READ IT; AT YOUR OWN RISK.
 
NOTE: “TO MAKE THIS POST MORE REALISTIC AND MORE MEANINGFUL; I HAVE USED POST OF VARIOUS VERY CREATIVE, TALENTED AND BRILLIANT BLOGGERS WITH FULL CREDIT; BUT THAN ALSO; IF ANY OF YOU HAVE ANY OBJECTION REGARDING IT; PLEASE LET ME KNOW; AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE; IN THE COMMENT SECTION OF THIS POST”.
“This too shall pass” is a Hebrew adage or Proverb:
Indicating that all material conditions, positive or negative, are temporary.
It is said an Eastern monarch once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence,
To be ever in view, and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations.
They presented him the words: “And this, too, shall pass away.”
How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction.-wikipedia
“This too shall pass” simple meaning of this powerful proverb;
 “Never ever try to judge the circumstances and situations in it’s present form; because nothing in life is forever or permanent; just flow with life; just swim with the stream of river’';
  •     Your GRIEF will be also vanish one day like your GLORY..
  •     Your SETBACKS will be also one day vanish like your SUCCESSES…
  •     Your TRAGEDIES will be also one day vanish like your TRIUMPHS
  •     Your HORRIBLE moments of life will be also one day vanish like your HAPPINESS moments….
Means; nothing in life is permanent; so, find out the perfect equilibrium (The state of a reaction in which the rates of the forward and reverse reactions are the same.) with life.
  • Fly with the wind;
  • Swim with stream of river;
  • Enjoy, experience and explore each and every moments of life; like a third person; a eye witness, a sage, monk or saint type of mentality or the theory of detachment where external factors hardly matters your inner piece of your mind.
 
As all of you know; 8th of March-celebrated throughout the world as a “International Women’s day” so, to celebrate this occasion; today I am publishing this post.
 
“This post is dedicated to all the women of world; indeed, some part of this post may hurt you, uncomfortable to read for you; but it is harsh realities of our life and that is what I tried to projected through my writing and some post from the very very talented bloggers”. 
 
So, friends, enjoy this unique post……
                            ***PART-1- THE WEAK OR VICTIM*********
 
  • SITUATION OF RAPE….
 
No matter how much delicate, mild, gentle, tender, weak,pathetic your body is; even small scratch of thorns can hurt you badly, wound you seriously; internally as well as externally; but the same body every now and then throughout the world becomes most favored prey for some rapist;
You are unable to tolerate this trauma;
You are unable to tolerate this tragedy;
And every living moment you are thinking of committing suicide….You want to quit…
BUT….
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
  • SITUATION OF EVE TEASE… 
No matter; how much cautious and careful you are while travelling, while attending public gatherings, social functions, public places, public transportation;despite of your all efforts someone every now and then presses your breasts, rubbing your buttocks with his penis under the pretends of unintentional push from crowd…..
No matter; how much you take care but every nook and corner of the world you will find those; who finds pure pleasure and evil joy to play with his play doll; to tease you, to mock you; to look your body with lots of lust…. 
Each encounter of this nature, creates enormous amount of agony and anger in your mind; you are fed up with this daily occurrence; everyday’s unbearable realities…..You want to quit….
BUT…
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit… 
  • SITUATION OF BEING IGNORED OR HUMILIATED….
 
No matter; how much deeply you know; you didn’t had any control on your birth;
And unfortunately you born in the house of son obsessed, son biased parents and now each and every living moment you are paying the price of their lust, sexual intercourse or torn condom by experiencing it through their verbal abuse, unbearable insult, constant criticism, sarcastic comments, cynical communication, grief gestures, painful postures, body language, glare, glaze, taunt……
Each living moment you want to quit…
BUT;
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
 
  • SITUATION OF DOWRY….
No matter; how much smart you are; no matter how much beautiful you are; no matter how much loving and caring you are; no matter how much you are good as a human being; no matter how much solid character you have;
But your parents doesn’t have enough dowry(Cash, Gold, Car, Big house) to satisfy; hunger of your would-be-husband and his beloved family members or your would-be-in-laws; and due to that you are rejected by countless male….
You are helpless…..you want to quit….
But,
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit…. 
  • YOUR INNER DESIRE TO PURSUE YOUR DREAM……
No matter; how much you desire to pursue your dream; no matter how much you are interested to charter your own path; no matter; how much you are dying and crying to follow your heart ; no matter how much you love your parents and despite of your all sincere  efforts you are unable to explain them; how much you love them; and you are they beloved kid…they don’t understand you or try to understand you…
You want to cry….you want to quit….
But…
Remember…
This too shall pass….Don’t quit….
No matter; how much you want to cry; how much you want to shout, how much you want to scream, how much you want to throw your frustration; but; you are always expected to be mute; to keep silent; to keep your mouth shut; the more you keep silent; the more you keep your mouth shut; the more you obey the rules of society; the more you play the rule of puppets, the more you play the role of deaf and dumb victim; the more you play the role of ego-booster or at the mercy of someone; the more you will be tortured, the more you will be tormented, you want to break this lifelong chain… 
                                  ******* * PART-2 THE WARRIOR******************
 
  • BOUNCE BACK BUT IGNORED…
Now, slowly but steadily you realized crying, shouting, screaming and last but not least quitting is not at all option, you resolved with yourself only and one day you decided;
“Enough is Enough””
“Tit for tat”
And, you just like a; Phoenix bird rise from the ashes; you bounced back, you found new way to live life and this is what you did; one day you informed the world and warned them to be aware, to be alert, to be cautious,  …..
  • TIT FOR TAT…..
Despite of clear cut warning; still, world hardly took any notice of your existence; as always they ignored you, and not only that all the torturing and tormented remain as it was; and one day, you made your intention quiet clear to the world;
HOW DARE YOU???????????????????????????????????????
                                       **********PART-3- THE WINNER**********
Now, you are cool, calm, composed with yourself;  because each incident, each accident, each adversity, each obstacle, each road block, each problems made you much more wiser, much more prudent, much more mature and you found the perfect rhythm of life and despite of all odds, despite of all obstacles, despite of all hardships, despite of all adversity….
  • You proved wrong to all the naysayers
  • You proved wrong to all the people of all world;
  • AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST YOU PROVED TO YOURSELF ONLY;
“I AM WINNER, I AM UNDEFEATED, I AN UNCONQUERABLE, I AM UNCONTROLLABLE”
                                                   *********THE END************
TO ALL THE WOMEN OF WORLD;
Now it is up to ALL OF YOU; what you want to be;
  • THE WEAK OR VICTIM OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
  • THE WARRIOR OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
  • THE WINNER OF SITUATIONS & CIRCUMSTANCES?
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST…………………
 
 

GO TO THE EXTRA MILE-IDIOMS-PART-3

This is classic combination of 2(TWO) POST in 1(ONE) POST

POST-1

In the response of my previous post GO TO THE EXTRA MILE-PART -2

3- bloggers- my loyal friends; clearly mention that they want to read few more feedback; so, post-1 is completely dedicated to these three wonderful friends; Stephanie, Yashika, Meloheart.

POST- 2;  

Written for all; especially; for my all FEMALE followers cum friends;

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POST-1 For -Stephanie,Yashika, Meloheart

Yes, friends, this post, I have written for all of you; now, let us continue our on-going discussion;

In previous post; I discussed three points; now, from here, we will move little further;

  • FEEDBACK NO: 4 

MANAGING YOUR EMAIL-ID;

Yes, how you manage your email-id is also important issue; I don’t know anything about all of you; but; how I am managing my email-id that I will explain to all of you;

While creating my blog; I have created exclusive EMAIL-ID; just for the purpose of my blog only; where I just receives Emails related to my blog only;

The obvious benefits of it;

Whenever you log-in or Sign-in in your blog email-id; one thing is quiet sure that you will have all the mails related to your blog only; so, you don’t have to juggle up between your non-blogging and blogging mail.

As all of you know; we as a bloggers receive three to four types of mails;

  •  Comments from new readers or first timers;
  •  Comments from old readers;
  •  Word press news and posts and prompts;
  •  Reply of previous comments on someone’s blogs;
  •  New posts from the blogs which you have subscribed;

Now: what I do: generally, Whenever I sign-in my email-id; once in a morning for half an hour to one hour; so, whenever; I log-in to my account;  I will have all five types of mails-; so, I have prioritize it in such a way;

  • First of all; I approve the comment of my first time readers; because, for me it is most priority base task; once, I approve & moderate comments; I immediately reply that comment in my blog; while replying the comment my first sentence, invariably is: THANKS FOR YOUR VISIT, READING AND COMMENT ON MY BLOG; second, sentence, I write something good about that blogger or his/her blog and in third portion- I satisfy his/her query, question or confusion; after doing this, depending upon the time; I visit the blog of that blogger and comment on his/her about page or recent post and thank him/her regarding comment on my blog.

I don’t know how much time it takes, but, after completing this first task;,

  • If I have more time, I read the new comments on my blog by my old readers and reply them in my blog; after completing this activity; I read the posts of the bloggers whose blogs I have subscribed; Generally; I receive ten posts in my Inbox everyday; here; also priority plays vital role, there are few bloggers like Stephanie, Yashika, Meloheart, Tony So, Katho, Shweta, Tabby, Celina, Donna, Shruti & many other bloggers; whose post; I always read on priority basis & comment on it; so my first session on my blog; I use in this manner;
  • And remaining post and other posts from Word press I read on night; during my second session of Log-in; whenever, I have spare time of half an hour to one hour; so, with the help of this description;
  • I would like to draw two specific conclusion; first; keep your blog email-id separate form your personal communication email-id it will save your half of the blogging time; second; while managing the email id try to follow above mention points so within minimum amount of time you can achieve maximum result.

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POST-2- For all female followers cum friends;

Hello; All female followers cum friends;

First of all;

Wishing you all the best for Very Happy Women’s International day!!!!!!!

Surprised!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes; being a woman don’t you know that throughout the world (8- March) this day is celebrated as a “International Women’s day”???????????.

No problem; still you have many days to celebrate it in your own way!!!!!!!!!!!

By the way; have you decided about it; being a blogger how you are going to celebrate it;

I know very well; none of you have thought about it;

OK, here, I am giving you some suggestions to celebrate it.

  • SUGGESTION-1

Don’t you think publishing a post on this day; regarding something related to women; is unique way to celebrate this day!

Yes, being a woman and being a blogger; by publishing one unique post about; women empowerment, common problems faced by the women in society, obstacles women face in their personal as well as professional life etc.

So, first of tell me; how many of you are going to publish the post on that day????????

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POST-1 For –Stephanie, Yashika,Meloheart

  • FEEDBACK NO.5

FOLLOW-UP MESSAGES;

This is also very important issue; which contribute a lot in your blogging success; whenever, someone subscribe for your blog; without fail, visit his/her blog and thank him/her for subscription; for that matter; what I have done; I have prepared one standard message; LIKE THIS;

Stephanie; first of all thanks for following my blog; you are most welcome at my blog, from today, I too started to follow your blog; by following each other’s blog and commenting on each other’s blog; we will try to empower, enhance and enrich other; wishing you all the best;

This is standard message I have created and just by changing the name; without fail, I write it on the new  subscribers “About” page of the bloggers on comment section;

Now, do you know, with one message, I have killed three birds;

  • I won the sympathy of that blogger;
  • I created good impression in his/her mind; so my future’s all the communication with them will be very smooth, sweet, cordial and more friendly;
  •  My message will remain there for ever in his/her “About” page so, lifetime it will be publicity of my blog, whenever other bloggers read this message on their blog and if it appeals to them; they simply visit my blog and in many a cases subscribe my blog too; so, at present I have around 60 +(plus) active bloggers friends and in each of your blog advertisement of my blog is there and yes, many a times, your friends also becomes my friends too…..

So, concluding part ; create one very wonderful standard message in your own style; save it in your draft and whenever someone subscribe your blog; immediately, paste this message in his/her “About” page.

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POST-2-For all female followers cum friends;

  • SUGGESTION-2

Be mentor of one or two teenager or young women blogger;

Yes, if you are established blogger; having a mature age, years of experience in personal & professional life or in blogging life; find out one or two, teenager or young girls(women) fro your followers list and be mentor of them; first of all, slowly but very steadily; built up relationship with them; win their trust, and initially help them in their blogging life and when you feel that your relationship is solid enough; take keen interest in their educational life and grow and nurture their talent, be their “friend, philosopher cum guide”

So, tell me, how many of you will implement this idea????????????

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POST-1 For -Stephanie,Yashika, Meloheart

  • FEEDBACK NO-6

RE BLOGGING THE POST;

There is nothing wrong in RE-BLOGGING; in fact, it is good idea to promote someone’s post, or acknowledge someone’s good work, but, while re-blogging keep in mind;

  • First; Reblogg only those post which you personally like; do not re-blog the post; just for maintain good relation with your blogger friend.
  • Second; Reblogg only those post; which are suitable to nature of your blog;
  • Third; Re blogging post keep on your blog for very few days only, because, your readers visiting your blog for reading your post; they are used to your own writing style, presentation style and subject selection, many a times; they may not digest the test of other bloggers work.

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POST-2 For all female followers cum friends;

  • SUGGESTION-3

Occasionally promote good blogs and website on your blog related to women empowerment;

If you search and surf through the net you will find there are many blogs and websites completely dedicated for the women empowerment programmed only and they are doing very noble work in this direction; so, whenever you find such a blog and website without hesitation feature it in your blog; so, all of your readers can benefited through that blog or website.

So, tell me, within one quarter how many blogs or website you will feature in your blog???????

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 POST-1 For -Stephanie,Yashika, Meloheart

  • FEEDBACK NO. 7

SLOWLY BUT STEADILY BUILD UP YOUR OWN COMMUNITY;

Very slowly but very steadily start to built up your own community; for that; first of all; be clear in your mind; what types of people you would like to have as your friend; and as per your choice; everyday or during your spare time visit various blogs and whenever you find someone good as your friend; without any hesitation; request them to be your friend; it will take some time but result will be more rewarding than your expectations.

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POST-2 For all female followers cum friends;

  • SUGGESTION-4

I found this website while searching and surfing through net;

Without fail visit it;

Why???????????????????

This website gives you an opportunity to publish your own page on their website

This website gives you an opportunity to download logo;

In short; visit each and every PAGE of this website and utilize it in a best possible manner!

http://www.internationalwomensday.com/

WITH THIS; I AM COMPLETING MY POST-2 HERE ONLY;

ONCE AGAIN; WISHING YOU A VERY “HAPPY WOMEN’S INTERNATIONAL-DAY IN ADVANCE!!!!!!!!!

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POST-1 For -Stephanie,Yashika, Meloheart

  • FEEDBACK NO. 8

KEEP YOUR BEST POST FOR MORE DAYS;

Whenever you feel that you have written one of the best post; whenever you find that your readers liked this post; whenever you find that you have received number of comments on the post; keep that post on your blog for more days and promote that post aggressively in blogosphere.

THANKS FOR READING THIS; PLEASE FEEL TO CORRECT ME WHENEVER I AM WRONG.

AS ALWAYS WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST.

Yashika; Wishing you all the best for your exams.

 

 

GO THE EXTRA MILE; IDIOMS-PART TWO

WARNING: THIS IS VERY HARSH AND BITTER POST; SO, IF YOU ARE MENTALLY PREPARED TO READ IT THAN ONLY READ OTHERWISE……..
 
Hello friends;
 
It gives me immense pleasure to publish this post which is the second part of Go to the extra mile.
This post I have divided in four sections
  1. Congratulation
  2. Thank you
  3. Nomination
  4. Feed back
 
CONGRATULATION:
 
First of all, congratulation to all; who have successfully completed the course;
 
Second; congratulation to all who have enrolled for the course but couldn’t completed each and every assignment.
 
Third; congratulation to all those who have participated in the course but hardly made any progress.
 
THANK YOU;
 
IN my previous post; I appealed to all of you to comment on my post and I am more than happy to say that each one of you have responded my appeal in most positive manner and commented on my post; some of the comments are worth to remember; especially;
Stephanie
Miss Donna;
Kelly;
Yes, each and every comment, I appreciate all of you, because, each one of you were very much busy with Bloggin U and than also you people spared some time, read the post and commented on it.
So, thanks to all of you;
 
NOMINATION;
 
As I promised in my previous post, currently, I am studying various blogs(only my followers) and in my next post I will feature them here, so, as per my promise; I have done it and on 1st February I have added one more page on my blog “AWARD” and nominated 15 bloggers for “Very Inspiring blogger award”
Please do not forget to visit this page; who knows your or your dear friends may be there.
 
FRIENDS,
NOW;HAVE A GLASS OF WATER BESIDES YOU,
BE PREPARED; TO SWALLOW VERY BITTER PILL;
 
FEEDBACK
 
During last month, I visited various blogs, and commented on many blogs, after going through various blogs, I observed few common mistakes most of the bloggers are doing.
 
some of them are worth to mention;
 
  • NO VISIBILITY OF FOLLOW BLOG BUTTON; 
This is one of the most serious mistake; I have found on many blogger’s blog; there is no widget about “follow my blog”; 
Yes, it is very true, during my visit, I came across many many good blogs and some of them are too good; but, there were no “Follow blog” widgets;
No doubt, without that widget; there are many ways to subscribe the blog but believe me friends it is too laborious process to enter your email id and enter your URL and than you subscribe for the blog;
 
If you are one of them;
This is my solid suggestion to immediately install that widget and not only that; place it on most strategic location of your blog ;from where it can be visible; and do not forget to check mark the no. of followers button; 
During last month, I just placed the widget on top of my footer and check mark the no. of followers and; my followers increased up to great extent;
 
The logic behind this;
When it is placed at very convenient place, where without searching it too much; people can find it easily; immediately they will subscribe to your blog and by adding the no. of followers, people can easily find that this blog is followed by many bloggers and it creates some psychological effect on their mind and they will immediately start to follow your blog.
 
  • LESS RESPONSIVE TO THEIR COMMENTATOR;
 
Second biggest mistake I found;
Many bloggers are very very less responsive to their commentators, many a times, I experienced; 
All the way, I have gone through someone’s blog, read their post; commented on it, and what I have found; sometimes my comment were waiting for moderation for two days.
Now, Imagine the scenario; in your blog’s “About” page out of 500 words written description you have written in very very sweet and flatter language about
  • How much you like to meet new friend;
  • How much you like to talk to new people;
  • How much you are friendly and interested to meet new people; 
And someone all the way, came with good faith, to built up good relationship with you, to be your friend and waited for two days for moderation of his/her comment.
  • Don’t you feel you are neglected? 
  • Don’t you feel it’s a kind of carelessness from the blogger’s end?; 
If you are one of them and doing the same mistake; I am asking you……………
 
  • IS IT YOUR way to connect with like minded people? 
  • Is it the way you treat someone who came to meet you all the way? 
  • Is it the way you want to be friend with someone?
 
Honestly speaking; 
Many a times, I surprised and shocked with your way of treatment, way of presenting yourself to out world people.
If you are one of them my simple word of advice to you;
 
  • Either change the writing of your “ABOUT” page;
OR
  • Change the behaviors to treat your commentators;
 
CHOICE IS YOURS…………...
 
  • MANY OF THE BLOGGERS ARE TOO MUCH OBSESSES WITH THEIR THEMES AND WIDGETS; 
Friends;
 
REMEMBER…….
 
Your readers are visiting your blog for reading your post, creative content, thought-provoking ideas, useful information, gaining some knowledge, exchanging some ideas, making new friends etc.
 
Not to see your theme;
Yes, when some one visit your blog for the first time they will notice it; pay a little bit attention on it, and entire process takes only few minutes; once after observing your theme; they will  immediately go to read your post…..
 
So, my friendly word of advice;
Instead of wasting too much time on changing the themes and setting widgets.
Please pay more and more attention on creating qualitative post, thought-provoking ideas, mind-boggling points, which compel them to visit more often on your blog;
Do you know how many times have I changed my theme in one year????
Only twice in the year; 
And I am quiet comfortable with my present selection of theme (BOOK LITE) theme, 
Because, for me this is most suitable theme; 
WHY?
  1. My readers base range from teenagers to elder age person; so, this theme offers me big and bold font; which is quiet reader-friendly; 
  2. Second thing; all the widgets are on footer only so, it hardly distract the mind of readers, 
  3. And third, I heavily relied upon my writing skill only, so, I don’t want to distract my readers attention on any other issues of theme like side widgets; So, all the widgets on footer are quiet comfortable for me.
So, instead of theme; pay as much attention on content as much possible…..
BECAUSE;
Your readers are not interested to know yesterday what you had on your lunch;
Or with whom you had  your lunch;
1 image of your lunch dish…………
1 image of restaurant……….. 
200 words written description…..
 
Is it your definition of your “quality post”?
 
Is it your definition of creative post, mind-boggling ideas?????????
 
If you are one of them and doing the same mistake………………
 
My friendly advice to you……………..
 
Please;
 
  • Change the setting of your blog and instead of public change it to you “private’ setting;So, pity soul like me never by intention or unknowingly stumbled upon your blog;
OR
 
  • Improvise the standard of your post…. 
CHOICE IS YOURS……..
 
NOW, I AM ENDING MY POST HERE; STILL, THERE ARE MANY IMPORTANT POINTS I HAVE MARKED DURING LAST MONTH, AND EACH ONE IS UNIQUE; AND BELIEVE ME; SIMPLY FOLLOWING IT YOU CAN ACHIEVE HUGE SUCCESS OVERNIGHT ; BUT I DON’T WANT TO WRITE IT HERE;
 
SO, IN THIS POST; I AM ASKING TO ALL OF YOU; WOULD YOU LIKE TO READ MORE FEEDBACK; 
I HAVE GIVEN TWO OPTIONS HERE;
 
TWO OPTIONS;
 
  1. Yes- I am more than happy to read few more fantastic feedback. 
  2. No- I am not interested in your silly and stupid words of advice.
COPY- PASTE ANY OPTION ON COMMENT SECTION,
DEPENDING UPON THE MAJORITY  NUMBER OF YES OR NO, I WILL PUBLISH MY NEXT POST; WHICH WILL BE PUBLISHED ONWARD 15 FEBRUARY TO 7th OF MARCH.
THANKS……

GO THE EXTRA MILE; IDIOMS

Go The Extra Mile:- IDIOMS 
SIMPLE MEANING; Going above and beyond whatever is required for the task at hand.
 
Hi, friends; today, under the category of Idioms I am going to discuss one very interesting idiom.
 
“Go The Extra Mile”: 
Simple meaning of this idioms is… 
  1. When you have taken some task on hand, 
  2. When you have decided to do something, 
  3. When you badly desire to do something;  
  • You have to work; extra hard, 
  • You have to devote; more energy, 
  • You have to do more planing; than and than only; you can accomplish the task which you have taken on hand. 
Generally, I write very lengthy post, but today, I don’t want to write much lengthy post because, this post I would like to complete with all of you, my dear friends……...
Yes, I know all of you very well, my dear  followers cum friends,
  • All of you are very much talented people of this planet..
  • All of you are full with creativity of this universe,
  • All of you are powerhouse of energy, which enlighten others;
  • All of you are most sweet soul of soil, spreading smile everywhere; 
And THIS IS THE RIGHT  and most appropriate  time for of all of us…….
Now, first of all; let me start from my own story……
 
As all of you know from my previous post about happy year, my new resolutions that; this is the beginning of 2015 and during this year; I would like to have few more qualitative, talented, like-minded friends……….
 
I knew it very well
  • Without moving extra mile, 
  • Without doing  extra work, 
  • Without proper commitment this task can not be completed,
So, what I did and doing to achieve my this goal.
EVERYDAY I AM GOING EXTRA MILE……..
 
As all of us know very well; at word press right now “Blogging U” course is going on and many of us; including me have taken part in it, 
So, when this course begun, from very first day, I became very active and defined the goal to make maximum friends during this month only……….. 
 
What I started to do; to achieve this goal………
 
  • First of all; I determined that despite of being the part of this course, I will not actively involve with the assignments….So, I never participated on any assignment actively….
  • Second, I started to take keen interest on PASSIVE manner, what, I started to do is; everyday, I started to spend few hours in The Commons….
  • Third, During each assignment, I started to look and study the various bloggers….
  • Fourth, I started to visit various blogs; especially, created by new bloggers, 
  • Fifth, I started to follow some of the bloggers, studied their “About” page with keen interest and whenever I find someone who share same passion, or value as mine, I just started to comment on their “About” page and simply requested them to visit my blog and if possible comment on my blog.
  • Sixth, Whenever, I find someone in the badly need of “Dream Reader” I became their “Dream Reader” and read their post and commented on it.
  • Seventh; whenever someone has asked for the feedback about their new post, theme, new “About” page, or overall review of the blog, and I find that no one has answered, I tried to do it( Frankly speaking, I am not master or expert of the subject, but, whatever came in my mind I wrote them in most polite and humble tone)
  • Eighth, I commented on many peoples’ blog and tried to encourage them, empower them and uplift their spirit.
This is the few things I have done to make my goal achievable…
This is what I mean by “Walking or going Extra Mile”
And over all result……….
Simply superb; Absolutely amazing, incredible interesting, worth to memorize….
 
first in quantitative terms which can me measured in figures……
First, I found numerous highly talented, creative, caring and sharing, friendly friends……….
Second, My followers base achieved superb height, within the span of few days it has gone from 13 to 39( and still it is growing up, I am expecting few more friends to join with me on this journey.)
Third, I received creative comments, nice complement, encouraging and inspirational words,love, affection,cheerful smile, well wishes from other bloggers..
 
AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST THE MENTAL SATISFACTION, THE JOY, THE HAPPINESS, PURE PLEASURE; I have got from the entire experience is just unbelievable, superb and very much encouraging…………
I firmly believe that there are many things in life, which can not be measured in material terms…
 
So, now my point is that;
All of you have participated in this course;and still it is going on, so,”what extra mile you are walking”,what personally you sacrificed, what additional efforts are you putting to going through it?…..Successfully, Satisfactory….
 
This month, I visited many blogs (most of the blogs of my new & old followers) & found many new bloggers, they are “going extra mile” to make their blog more  meaningful, more reader- friendly, more appealing, more exiting, by the means of their post, with the usage of various widgets, by changing the themes,or by any means which ever they feel convenient doing it…
“Yes, my dear friends all of you are walking extra mile”………..
All of you, deserve due credit,
Keep it up!!!!!!!!!.
Don’t stop the momentum going on,
Don’t stop the creative flow going on your creative zone, remain in that zone as long as possible…
 
But one blog which specifically draw my attention…
The one blog, which is not walking extra mile but running extra mile…..
Yes, you heard it right RUNNING EXTRA MILE!!!!!!!!!!
Let me introduce this blog & blogger……
Blogger: Stephanie Tania;
Blog: Sugar & spice;
Why this blog qualified on my criteria of ” Going Extra Mile” criteria;
  • 1) Since last month I am following this blog and slowly but very steadily; I am becoming fan of this blog, but this month I found some amazing & interesting changes from the theme to presentation style.
  • 2) Second and most important criteria:

During this month only the blogger introduce few more recipes..

( I truly appreciate her efforts; because being a blogger, to publish one or two post in month, without using any multimedia is also difficult task for me and she introduce few more recipes…)

For the knowledge of readers…

For publishing one post about recipes you have to pass through various stages

(A) One has to go to the shopping; B) Then prepare it; C) Then take the pictures of it; D) Then Write it; E) Then publish it)

Just imagine how much hard work, efforts and energy needed to publish one single post & especially, when you are studying during day time and doing all these activities at night.

Yes, she is doing it in effortless manner and best part she is doing it with style and statement.

“DON’T SHE DESERVE STANDING OVATION FROM ALL OF US”.

Come on friends…

Let us, cheer -up; for her hard work,

Let us,cheer-up; for her dedication and devotion…

Let us, cheer-up; for her persistent performance…

Let us, cheer up; for her devotion towards the thing which she likes most(following the true calling of heart)

Stephanie, please accept my heartfelt congratulation for your hard work,
Now, since, the title of this post is ” Go the Extra mile” and you have qualified for it…
Can you please do little favor to me by replying me in comment section…
 
Can you please reply me in below format….
 
1) The Goal(S):
Where you can write the basic goal(s) of your blog..
If you need more guidance, let me suggest you, if someone ask me “What is the goal of my blog?” So, I will reply like this, I do have many goals, first, to write the quotations, idioms and proverbs in more meaningful manner; second, to encourage some one, Third; to meet new and like minded people, Fourth) spread the smile on some one face, but out of all these goals, my major goal is to connect with like minded & friendly people like me who believes in high values of life, who believes in highest standard of morale, who believes in the integrity of personality…
Like wise, you can mention, what ever comes in your mind…
 
2) What you have sacrificed to achieve these goal(s)?
Where you can write about any financial or personal sacrifices..
If some one ask me the same question, I reply like this;
First) To achieve my goal to connect with like minded people; everyday I spend nearly one to two hours to read other bloggers “About” page, so, everyday, I sacrificed my two hours for this goal.If I earn x amount of money in one hour, so, everyday,it is sacrifice of my 2X amount of my earning. 
 
3) THE ACHIEVEMENT OR REWARD:
Where you can write about the reward you are getting through this process..
If someone ask me the same question, I reply like this..By connecting myself with like minded people; I am getting pure pleasure of friendship,joy.happiness, love, affection.
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Like wise, what ever comes in your mind you can write; there is no word limit, there is no space limit, you can write as much as you wish, So, I, as well as other bloggers get inspiration from you.
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Last but not least, 
To all the bloggers…
As all of you know blogging U is going on and all of us working hard, So, I request to each one of you; to write in comment section( in above mention format- The Goals,The sacrifices, The Reward); so, other bloggers get inspiration, encouragement from your comment, they feel they are not only, but there are many people working hard, it will boost up their confidence, it will boost up their morale, it will push them to work extra hard…
Don’t you think, it is noble work to spread smile on someone face?
Don’t you think, it is our way of giving back to society?
So,I specifically, request to all of you; to write as much as possible in comment section…
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If someone; who is not participating in the “Blogging U’ they can write anything related to the subject of topic.
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BY NATURE, I AM VERY HOPEFUL PERSON.
I HOPE, NONE OF YOU WILL DISCOURAGE ME…
THANKS…
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One more thing, currently, I am closely following many blogs, so, who knows, next month it is you or your blog publish here…
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“AS FAR AS POSSIBLE, PLEASE, AVOID THE USAGE OF “LIKE” BUTTON ON ANY BLOG, I KNOW FROM MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE; IT TAKES HARDLY FEW MINUTES TO READ THE POST AND COMMENT ON IT AND MANY A TIMES MY FEW MINUTES MAKES SOME ONE’S DAY, SPREAD SMILE ON SOMEONE FACE, PUSH THEM TO PUBLISH ONE MORE POST .”
 
 
 

 

Happy New Year-My resolutions towards my followers cum friends

This post; I completely dedicate to my all followers cum friends….

Hi,

Friends,

First of all, “happy new year to all of you”.

“May God bring peace & prosperity, health & happiness, fame & fortune, success & sensation, achievement & attachment, victory & win, glory & grandeur throughout the year and throughout the lifetime to all of you and all your near & dear one”

Due to grace of GOD 2014 was wonderful year in terms of social relations.

During this year only; I have found some wonderful, amazing & incredible followers cum friends & I hope the same process will be continue throughout the year 2015.

So, to keep my all these amazing & wonderful followers cum friends happy throughout the year and if possible throughout the life, I have made below mention resolutions.

  • Whenever they publish any post; I will not press the “LIKE” button before reading twice.
  • Whenever they publish any post; I will not comment “Wow”, “Wonderful”, “Amazing”, “Great”, “Brilliant” button before reading it twice.
  • More often I will read their “About” page; so, I can remember very well, what they like, what they dislike, what they want to share, what they don’t want to share, what are their priorities & preferences.
  • Whenever they publish any post; I will not only just read for the sake of reading only; but I will take mental note of it and in future; whenever I will communicate with any of them, I will keep it in mind, so, consciously or unconsciously; I may not hurt their feelings or press panic button or sentimental issues, which may affect them badly.
  • We all live in different country, culture & community; so, whenever they publish something which may not be in align with my own culture or belief; I will forgive them with open heart; without having any feeling of bitterness in mind.
  • Many a times many of them publish the post which may not be related to my passion or area of interest; so, in that situation or circumstances to keep them happy; I will read it with utmost interest.
  • I will never ever ask any personal questions to any of them; but, if any of them wants to share it with me by their own consent or willingness; I will be more than happy to listen it and I will listen with full attention & complete presence of mind.
  • Whenever I read their post; I will try to provide them useful insight, fruitful feedback, helpful hints, trustworthy tips & solid suggestions in most polite & humble manner.
  • Whenever I will provide those helpful hints, fruitful feedback, trustworthy tips & solid suggestions; in no case; I will compel, pursue or force them to follow it completely or partially.
  • Whenever any of them approach me for any feedback; I will provide my feedback with my complete knowledge, information and insight without keeping any expectation of favor from them.
  • Many of my follower friends are quiet new to blogging, many of them are trying to publish their first full length post; so, in no case I will expect them to perform 100% from very first post.
  • Most of the time, I will ignore their spelling mistakes, grammar mistakes & wrong sentence structures.
  • Whenever they offer me any suggestions, provide me any feedback & if it is not personal; instead of considering it as a hate, jealousy or any other negative feeling; I will consider it as a “Constructive Criticism”.
  • Whenever I will publish any post; I will not compel or pursue them to read my post; to comment on it or to press the “LIKE” button or read it immediately.
  • I will always remember that “ No one is perfect in this world, including me & imperfection only lead us towards the perfection”
  • Last but not least………

In my all communication with them; I will always treat them as my extended family members only; not as my followers; so, keeping this view in mind; I will always try to maintain their dignity, their respect as I keep of my own family members.

 

COMMENT IS THE SECTION WHERE YOU CAN WRITE;

  • IF I HAVE FORGOTTEN ANYTHING WORTH TO MENTION.
  • WHICH RESOLUTION YOU LIKE MOST & WHY?
  • WHICH RESOLUTION YOU LIKE LEAST & WHY?
  • (SPECIAL REQUEST: THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT POST FOR ALL OF US (BLOGGERS); SO, I REQUEST TO ALL OF YOU TO SHARE YOU’RE VIEWS &YOUR OPINIONS IN VERY DESCRIPTIVE MANNER; SO IT CAN BECOME USEFUL TO ALL OF US.)

 

Age is an issue of mind over matter.If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter. -Mark Twain

Age is an issue of mind over matter.If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter. –Mark Twain

What a wonderful, thoughtful, inspirational & yet very realistic quotation from one of the world’s most admired author!

Generally, as a human being we tend to see our age from biological point of view and from very childhood; biology has taught us that as we grow older, as we advanced further in our life; AGE, certainly starts to work on us.

There are numerous external and internal symptoms that clearly manifest that slowly but very steadily we are getting older;

Some of them are very much apparent; like physical disability to do hard work, loss of eye sight, various diseases;

And there are numerous mental symptoms like weaken memory, less sharpness and agility in mind and slow decision power are some of the symptoms that simply comes with growing age.

But, on above mention quotation the author has completely change the popular above mention scenario which we perceived through the generations.

Author has thrown light to the topic from very different perspective,

Till today, we are habituated to think that as and when we grow older; the efficiency, the productivity of our body diminish;

Upto an extent it is true; so, till today, to stop the aging process, to stop the inefficiency of our body, to stop the loss of productivity of our body; we pay as much attention as much possible on the physical aspect of aging process and to avoid aging, to postpone aging process, to dalay aging process;

We do all the necessary activities, we take all the necessary steps like regular exercise, healthy and hygienic food, regular life etc.; there is nothing wrong in it, it is absolutely fine, but this over simplification ignores one of the very vital aspect of age.

And that is MENTAL ASPECT!

There is nothing about; when you grow older; a bit cautious, a bit alert, a bit conservative approach, but over and above there is one more very vital, very significant aspect that is;

Why do not use our mind-every human being’s very powerful & potential property in the universe; to cope with our aging process, to deal with our aging process, to delay our aging process.

Now comes the billion dollar question……

IS IT POSSIBLE?

Yes, it is absolutely possible!

How?

“If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter”.

The author has explained it in a very simple yet in a very solid manner.

If you really interested to stop the aging process;

First of all,

Follow the golden rule,

Do not mind about your age– it seems very simple from superficial level but in reality it is quite difficult to follow; because from our childhood, society has imposed ( in many cases, we have imposed)  so many, so called rules on us,and over the years as we grow older and older; those rules became the our guiding angel; and one of the rules of society is;

As you grow older, as you become aged, you do not have to take less trodden paths, you do not have to take any adventurous trips, you do not have to take risks, you do not have to become as enthusiastic as child to learn new things in your life;

In short, as you grow older, as you become aged, you have to live your life in most safest and cautious manner, the reason-now you have become old, now you have become aged!

But in above mention quotations author breaks all above mention so called myth and advised in simple terms “ do not mind your age” do whatever you like at any age.

And it is true too!

Because, history is full with thousands of man & women, those who have done splendid work at the old age, reached to the new height of their personal life at old age.

Some of them are worth to mention;

  • Can you believe ?Henry Ford was 45 when he created his the revolutionary Model T car.
  • Isn’t it seems miracle? that Mr.Ray Kroc started McDonald’s at age 52 in 1954; and later on he grew it into the world’s biggest fast-food franchise.
  • What about Anna Mary Robertson Moses who is better known as Grandma Moses, began her prolific painting career at the age of 78.
  • It is well known fact that; Harlan David Sanders who is well known as Colonel Sanders started Kentucy Fried Chicken at the age of 65 years.
  • I hope most of the readers might be aware that famous novel BEN HUR written by Lew Wallace at the age of 53.
  • At the age of 70; Golda Meir became the 4th prime minister of Israel.
  • Nelson Mandela became president of South Africa at the age of 74.

Above mention all the examples clearly specify one thing;

Age is hardly any barrier for those who do want to do something in their life; above mention all the people are simple, ordinary folk like all of us but one thing that clearly distinguish them from others is they never allowed age as their barrier to accomplish their worthy task or goal.

The concluding part of entire discussion;

It is never too late for anything or to pursue your dreams….

So, dear friends find your true passion, no matter whatever your age is; do not listen to others; do not get easily influenced by others; do not wait for permission from someone else.

There is nothing wrong in having a little fear; critically examine your fear; find the way to overcome it and take that first and most important bold step toward your lifelong goal that you have conceived through the decades and till today delayed due to some internal or external pressures.

Today, is the best day, none of us know about tomorrow, so, isn’t it a right time to take that little step towards your dream?

Comment is the section; where you can share your dreams and tell us what the little action you have taken to make your dream true.