Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.-Chinese Proverb
When I started this blog, in my wildest ever dream I haven’t imagined that one day this blog will reach up to the extent of 100 very happy & satisfied friends cum followers, I never imagined that I will receive these much love, affection, admiration, respect, support, care, co-operation from all these wonderful followers cum friends, I never imagined that the persona like me who hardly knows anything about writing will reach up to this extent, a person like me whose English is not up to the mark and still he commits lots of grammatical errors will be receive these much love from all these highly creative, highly talented, most educated, most distinguish, most literate, most sophisticated people of cyber world.
Yes, friends, it is very very true….
Because, when I started this blog; like all of you, I too was very new to the blogging world, I too was very anxious like all of you, I too was exited like all of you, I too was worried like all of you, I too was nervous like all of you, I too was like all of you with lots of self doubt in mind like all of you………….
In short, when I started this blog,
I was not superman or superwoman & still I am not,
I was not super human being & still I am not,
I was not person with extra ordinary talent and still I am not
I was not very knowledgeable person & still I am not,
I was not heroic or heroine type of person & still I am not,
I was not person with any amazing skill or tremendous talents & still I am not,
Still,I am a person with average personality, average intelligence, average writing skill, average general knowledge like every other person on this planet,
So, now question comes, if I was and still I am with lots of lack and limitations, shortcomings and drawbacks
Why I have reach up to this extent?????????
The simple reasons of this question will be very useful to all of us, especially to those who wants overnight success, to those who wants overnight glamour and glory, to those who wants success at the flash of eyes, to those who just built their castles on air, to those who wants too achieve so many things in their life but hardly prepared to change their mind set.
Some of the harsh lessons, I learned during the process are worth to remember…..
BE NOT AFRAID OF GROWING SLOWLY BUT BE AFRAID ONLY OF STANDING STILL;
While reading many posts from my many blogger friends, this is the most shocking facts I came across, many of them were and far more talented than me, many of them are far more creative than me, many of them are far more imaginative than me, many of them are far more learned than me, many of them are far more good at writing and expressive than me in English languages, many of them had and still having dream to create their blog, but they hardly do anything on it.
So, first of all, remember there is a difference between dream and desire, dreams are nothing else but just the fantasy of mind, while desire is something that you want to do it badly, for dreaming you don’t have to do any efforts, but for converting that dream in to desire you have to do something, for dreaming about anything you don’t need to do anything, just sit or sleep and with open or close eyes you can see all the dreams, so, first of all, understand very well that there is a vast difference between dream and desire.
While having any doubt regarding creating your blog, instead of dreaming too much about it, just create it, that’s all, there are two types of pain; first; the things we don’t do, and the things we have done but not going well.
Remember first pain is much more sever and bitter and painful of not doing than the other pain of you have done something but not going well.
So, lesson no. 1 Start something whatever you want to do; instead of just having dream, start to put it in reality.
So, this is the first secret of success in blogging as well as in general life too,
If you want to do something in your life, whether wants to create your own blog, start to your own business, start to pursue any hobby, start it , remember every thousand steps journey starts with one small any tiny steps, for climbing the mountains you have to start from the bottom.
So, this is the one advice, I would like to pass on to all those who are reading this post,
Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.
Friends, never ever afraid of growing slowly but be afraid when you feel that you have been standing still like a dead body, you have been standing still like a stone, you have been standing still like deaf and dumb, yes, when you found in this situation it is critical time for you to evaluate and analyse yourself properly.
From my stats; I can see that this blog is viewed by almost all the countries of this planet and still I know from very beginning there are many people following me and out of them many of them might have read my first post and still they are reading my this post and out of them many of them might have thought to create their blog someday and still they are thinking, so, this post is completely dedicated to all these day dreamers,
Oh day dreamers, now stop your procrastination, now silent your inner self doubt, because, I am live example in front of you,
If I can do it why you can’t ???????????
What one quality that I possess an you don’t have it??????????
One characteristic I have and you don’t have it?????????????
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No friends, you are much more smarter, shrewder, talented ,creative, imaginative than me, but, I choose not to stand still and today I am guiding you, today, I am giving advise to you, if you have started your own blog, the situation might had been vise versa, either you might have guided me or we both might have on equal level but you choose to stand still.
TODAY, I AM ASKING TWO QUESTIONS;
IF YOU ARE READER AND NOT BLOGGER WHAT STOPS YOU TO CREATE YOUR OWN BLOG?
IF YOU ARE BLOGGER WHAT WERE THE INITIAL DOUBTS IN YOUR MIND AND HOW YOU COPE OF WITH IT???????????????????
EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ YOUR STORIES…
WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST