ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB

Dear friends,

Please excuse me for few days, I will not be present on the world of WORD PRES.

Where am I going?

Of course in Heaven!!!

Why?

Very simple, the lovely ladies of this LAND, in spite of my constant refusal “nominating me for various blogging awards”, compelling me to accept the  “Challenges”, requesting me to write the “Guest posts on their blog.”

No doubt, I am determined,disciplined and decent man, but, till how long one can resist, when to avoid,to ignore one beauty seems daunting task, bunch of beauties, provoking you…………Constantly………Endless…….

Enough is enough……..

I do not want to test my will power any more, before, I surrender myself to you, it is safest way to escape,quit & run away, before you catch me, at least for few days and that is why I am going to heaven.

Awesome and Amazing Akiraa nominated me for “STARLIGHT BLOGGING AWARD”

Electrifying and Elegant Erika nominated me for “DRAGON’S LOYALTY AWARD”

Elegant and Easygoing Erika nominated me for “THE SUNSHINE AWARD”

Excellent and Exclusive Eloquent deviance nominated me for “THE LIBSTER AWARD”

Fabulous and Fantastic Frugal fab nominated me for “THE VERSATILE BLOGGER AWARD”

Hilarious & Happy Helen nominated me for “SISTERHOOD OF THE WORLD BLOGGERS AWARD”

Kindhearted and Keen Katho nominated me for “THE LIBSTER AWARD”

Marvelous and Magnificent Meloheart invited me to write guest post on her new blog “SEEKING ROMANCE”

I politely refused her, why? she wants me to write the guest posts on her new yet very romantic blog on “ROMANCE”, “If it was about “FLIRTING” I could have thought about it, because from childhood I have firm grip on this subject, but, ROMANCE & LOVE, always alien words,troublesome and terrifying test for me, once, I tried my hand on it,badly wounded, still suffering, still RECOVERING,from that day on ward, I decided except me and GOD, I will not throw my pure 24 Karat GOLD LIKE HEART to any one….

AFTER ALL, PRECIOUS AND FRAGILE THINGS NEED SPECIAL HANDLING, ISN’T IT”? CORRECT ME, IF I AM WRONG.

New kid on block Nabilah nominated me for “THE VERSATILE BLOGGER AWARD”

STYLISH and SWEET Shruti challenged me for “THREE DAY THREE QUOTE CHALLENGE”

YOUNG  and YOUTHFUL Yashika nominated me for “CREATIVE BLOGGER AWARD”

 

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My previous post has become most successful post of my blog, thanks to all those who have click on it, thanks to all those who have read it, thanks to all those who have “LIKE” it and special thanks to

Decent Dr.Sweety, Electrifying Erika, Honourable Himali, Lovely Lionessblogger, Magical Marie, Simple Shelie,     Manficient Meloheart, Dashing Donna, Amazing Anxietybug88, Dear Dream it alive, Sweet taste of Chocolate,   Narrative Nadege, Nectarous Netta, Vedic  Velcherup, Sweet Shweta, Nice Nicole, Interesting Isabella, Amazing Akiraa, Beautiful flower of Rose, Close companion Chhaya,Inspirational Kim, Pure Pallavi, Saaint like Stacy, Simply superb Star,

For your live,active and interesting participation on discussion.

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UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

As all of you know very well, I have started NEW section named “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)” in my blog, under this section, now onward, In my each post, I will feature or promote one blog(er) of my followers.

QUALIFYING CRITERIA;

  • Blogger must be follower of this (QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS) blog.
  • Blogger’s active involvement with this blog as a commentator on various posts (Do not worry, I publish posts twice in a month, 1 & 15 of every month,so every other day, I will not bore you with my useless and rubbish posts of various blogging awards,in which you will have to read about which underwear I ware or what is the size of my private parts), live & active participation on various debate and discussion going on this blog, constant communication in the form of fruitful feedback, solid suggestions, helpful hints and trustworthy tips, in short, active community member,
  • Why all this? simple, I like live-wire,talkative,friendly people around me in my cyber life, if you are one of them, fine, you will find close companion in me, if you are not, sooner or later, you will realize, we are not on same wavelength,  Honestly speaking, I have created this blog for building the bridges with strangers, unknown people, I hardly concern about how many followers I have, but, yes, I do concern about how many friends I have, with whom, without entering in their personal life or allowing them into my personal life enjoy the plain, pure and innocence joy of true friendship. Are you interested, if yes, our vibes match.. OTHERWISE…..
  • Uniqueness of blog in terms of nature of blog, quality of posts, creative content, outstanding material and last but not least friendliness or friendly nature of blogger(Very important criteria).

Now, it’s time for this post’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER).

Today, I am little bit confused, how I describe her, because, she is all in one, an all rounder.

Should I describe her as a Mermaid, because, her friends refer to her as “Mermaid”because,  it’s totally normal to her to stay in the ocean most of her life, and that creatures lurking the beach that makes her a little jittery.

Should I describe her as a devoted wife and caring mother of two handsome son?

Should I describe her as a tough professional because she has nearly 30 years experience in retailing?

Should I describe her as a fun-loving,easy-going, friendly nature bloger?

Should I describer her as a very creative,talented, gifted bloger?.

No friends, none of above title justify her true personality, I am unable to portrait perfect picture of this gorgeous, colorful,charming,vibrant and dynamic lady,

Do you know what connect both of us on more deeper level, we both are highly intellectual, sharp analytical and quiet practical person in our personal life but in spite of all these qualities we both are mad and crazy lover of GOD and we never hesitate to admit it openly. Who cares???

Yes, I am talking about none other than one and only dashing diva of blogspeher as a………..

UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

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NOW, IT’S TIME FOR TODAY’S POST,

ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB

Yes friends,
Words are indeed sound superb, there is no doubt about it, but those words lose it’s charm or importance when it is used as monotonous process or from -ROBOT- like mouth, without any action justify or prove it worthiness.
YOUR ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB
 
Instead of saying “I Love You” three times in a day,sending few text messages, sharing few sweet lovely poems,occasional cards, cheap gifts on “Valentine Day” to your girl friend……
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to pass on her exams…..
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone,to find the job….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone,to tolerate the nasty,rude,vulgar,cheap and bitter comments someone passing on her heavy weight, bulky body,ugly look, uneven body shape,big melon size boobs, big buttocks,flat playground like chest, pimples on face, black and dark spots on face…..
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to face the bullying by unknown person….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to tolerate the trauma, trouble and torture she is facing when there is peer pressure to perform on certain manner or as per society’s stereotype standards,no matter how much it is against her will and happiness……
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS…………
 
Instead of hug her before leaving home and while coming back to your wife…
Be there,when she is fighting her battle alone against death in that maternity home’s delivery room to conceived your first child….
Be there when she is fighting her battle alone to deal with your family members or in-laws rigid and conservative mind-set….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is managing your household effectively and efficiently when your low income is even not half of the monthly requirement…..
Show your gratitude when her skeleton like body throughout the day work hard to finish all the household work without any maid help and at night gives you cool comfort of her warm breath on your chest and satisfying your hunger, play,rub,shake and some time suck your penis, to give you plain pleasure of pleasant,sweet and sound sleep,no matter, how much exhausted or tired she is…
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when raising one kid seems daunting task, she is raising your more than one kid as a most efficient teacher cum mother without any complain or drama.
Kiss her gently when your low libido(lower sex drive,appetite or hunger ) hardly satisfy her sexual requirements and due to that she never experience climax(a discharge of neuromuscular tension at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female ,usually known as an orgasm-urbandictionary) and due to that most of the time she remains hungry,unsatisfied,depressed and lost that also without any complain or drama………..
Because………..
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS………….
Instead of being part of every celebration of success of your close friend, instead of sending every day few vulgar, cheap and pornography video clips of Sunny leon or women with big and beautiful boobs, various sex positions, how to fuck the women,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder, when unemployment has broke her down,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder,when her confidence level has deteriorate up to the extent and she is seriously thinking to commit the suicide,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder when she is desperate, she is alone, she need to talk with some one and no one is there,
Be there, just sit with her, just seat silently, let her speak, let her cry, let her do what ever she think most appropriate in this situation………………
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……………
 
Instead of becoming crusader of humanity, delivering long and boring lecture whenever and wherever find the crowd, instead of publishing lengthy, rubbish,useless and stereotype posts on your blog about humanity,sympathy, empathy, pick up one or few followers from your own blog, be friend with them, win their heart, win their trust,be genuine with them and slowly but steadily, just start to uplift them, empower them, enhance them, without doing any drama, without any publicity, without any stunt, without creating any big scenes on social media, without even caring about declaring your real name, forget about any personal glory and gratification or return favor
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS…………….
 
Instead of trying to make everybody more noble,charitable, sympathetic,human,
While passing through road in your cool, comfortable and classic car, get down from car and help that old & disable lady, who is struggling hard since last few minutes to cross the road,
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……….
 
Instead of proving your self feminist on every social gathering by your very sophisticated, very polished, very diplomatic style, behaviors, manners and etiquette, raise your voice as loud as possible when you see that young, helpless girl or that helpless divorcee women everyday molested by your boss to keep her job intact,
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……..
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GOOD BYE FRIENDS, NOW, AS PER MY PLAN I AM GOING TO HEAVEN FOR FEW DAYS, PLEASE, DO NOT FOLLOW ME THERE, PLEASE DO NOT CHASE ME THERE………
BECAUSE………
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CHASE OR RUN BEHIND ME ANYWHERE, IF YOU LOOK CAREFULLY IN YOUR HEART, IN ONE CORNER OF THAT HEART YOU WILL FIND ME, BECAUSE, I ALWAYS RESIDE ON SWEET SOUL,NOBLE HEART & PURE MIND OF MY LOVELY AND SWEET FRIENDS SPREAD UP ALL ACROSS THE GLOBE…………
 

17 thoughts on “ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB

  1. I just loved todays post. You sure are a god loving and respectable person and deserve every ounce of respect for the days post . Will miss you , come as soon as possible because as much tempting as it is heaven is not for mortals ☺

  2. Supposedly only 7% of communication is the words we speak. Something like that. I love what St. Francis of Assisi said once, “Always be preaching the Gospel, and when necessary, use words.” As a Christian, I can really relate to this quote. And to the whole idea of being an example. Walk the walk and don’t just talk the talk. Truly love. Seek the good for the other.
    🙂

  3. Congratulations on your awards!! That’s amazing! And I think you are very deserving! Beautiful post and yes words are often enough but sometimes actions do speak louder. I hope you have an amazing few days off/vacation! I am looking forward to your next posts! ❤ 😀

  4. Great post
    I enjoyed reading
    Your advices for men are very important
    I wish every man in the world read these advices
    Your advices for bloggers are also nice
    Congratulations for the awards
    You deserve them
    I hope that you will enjoy your holiday
    Best wishes:-)

  5. Congratulations on your many award nominations. As for your post, this is something that I try to point out daily. Words can be beautiful, moving, and can express our innermost feelings. However they are easy to say. Anyone can say anything. What puts merit to these words is what we do, and how we follow through. Actions are hard, actions take effort. That is when the true intention of a person shines through. Without action, eventually even words that bring happiness will mean nothing or bring sadness and bitterness, as one will think “These are just words, this person doesn’t mean what he/she is saying and is only trying to keep me around a little longer.” That is never a point someone should get to. Say what you mean, mean what you say.

  6. Congrats my friend. You deserve every reward you’ve been granted, you are fantastic! Enjoy your few days of vacation.
    Yes indeed, actions speak louder than words. When I was a little girl, I had managed to make a bunch of people shed some tears of joy instead of sadness as we walked to he cemetery. Before I went to the funeral, I sewed some tiny ruffles in the back of my paenty. While all the little pieces of the ruffles were hanging behind my chubby little legs, because I did could not sew the well enough, I did no care, I was too busy shaking my butt and saying “choukoum choukoum boum-boum! Did not have to say much, but my action that day was never forgotten.

    Love your blog!

  7. I have been checking your blog for new posts and am hoping you come back soon! ❤ I'm just stopping by to say hello and let you know I have been thinking of you, friend! 😀 Talk to you soon!

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  9. Wow, what an incredible, thought-provoking post! With just one post I got to know so much about you and your blog and the beautiful way you write, I’m so glad to come across you and your blog. Though I’m sad that you are going away for a while now that I just joined you in this venture. We will be waiting for you and more of your wonderful posts, Keep inspiring!
    Much love,
    Zee ❤

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