He Is Poor Who Does Not Feel Content-Japanese Proverb

Dear Friends,

As all of you know, since last one and half year, I am active in blogging and during this entire period, I met hundreds of friends from blogging worlds and each one of them is unique and exceptional in their own way, most of them, somehow or other way, helped me, supported me, encouraged me through their posts, through their inspirational comments, through their replies to my comments and I am truly thankful to all of them.

As all of you, first of All, blogger, Shruti Gopinathan, nominated me for “VERY CREATIVE BLOGGING AWARDS” and for that, I have already created “AWARDS” page and in that page I clearly mention that

Thanks,

No more,

Please………..

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After receiving, Starlite Blogging Awards, Dragon’s loyalty Awards, The Sunshine Awards, The Sisterhood Awards, Creative Blogger Awards,  2-The Versatile Blogger Awards, 2- The libster Awards, and invitation to join “Three day Three quote challenge”,

I wrote “THIS POST” and in that post, I tried to convey the message,

Thanks,

No more,

Please, Please……………

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Today, once again, I am writing this post,

A.B.Mood, nominated me for, “VERSATILE BLOGGER AWARD”

Kimberly or Kim, nominated me for “STARLIGHT BLOGGER AWARD’”

Shannon, nominated me for “BLOGGER RECOGNITION AWARD”

Jeannie, nominated me for “THE LIBSTER AWARD

KOKO Boocro nominated me for “THE LIBSTER AWARD”

Jeanine, invited me to accept “THREE DAY THREE QUOTES”challenge,

Chhaya, invited me to join “E” word challenge,

AislinPaula, “TAGGED” me for this post,

Today, once again, I am trying to convey the same message,

Thanks,

No more,

Please,Please,Please………………………

 

I Came, I Saw, I Conquered-Julius Caesar

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I CAME, I SAW, I CONQUERED – JULIUS CAESAR

Gaius Julius Caesar was a Roman statesman, general and notable author of Latin prose. He played a critical role in the events that led to the demise of the Roman Republic and the rise of the Roman Empire.-WIKIPEDIA

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  • He is Born on 1972………
  • He grew up in a two-room apartment on Chennai’s Tamil Nadu one state of INDIA…...
  • He studied in Jawaharlal Vidyavihar till Std x
  • He studied in Vana Vani Matriculation Higher secondary school
  • He earned his degree from Indian Institute of Technology Kharagpur (IIT KGP)
  • He holds an MS from Stanford University in Material science and Engineering…….
  • He is an MBA from Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania…..

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FORTUNE FAVORS THE BRAVE………..

  • He joined GOOGLE in 2004

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MAKE HEY WHILE SUN SHINES……..

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  • On 19 November 2009, he  gave a demonstration of CHROME OS
  • CHROMEBOOK was released for trial and testing in 2011 and released in public in 2012
    On 20 May 2010, he announced the open-sourcing of the new video codec  VP8 by GOOGLE
  • and introduced the new video format WEBM

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WHEN THERE IS A WILL THERE IS A WAY……..

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  • He was a Director of JIVE SOFTWARE from April 2011 to 30 July 2013
  • being appointed Product Chief by current CEO  LARRY PAGE on 24 October 2014

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HE IS ANNOUNCED AS THE NEXT CEO OF GOOGLE ON 10-AUGUST-2015

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(SOURCE OF INFORMATION-WIKIPEDIA)

Respected Sir,

Mr. Sundar Pichai,

CONGRATULATION, FOR THIS REMARKABLE “ACHIEVEMENT”

WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST…………

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                   I CAME, I SAW, I CONQUERED – JULIUS CAESAR

Birds Of A Feather Flock Together-Proverb


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     Birds Of A Feather Flock Together ℘ –  Proverb    

The whole proverb means that people of same nature,type,personality,upbringing,cultural root stays together.


Still, I remember the day,                        ♥                                                                  

Yes, it was…………………..,                                                      ♥

Still, I remember the time,
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Yes, it was……………………,
As per my regular scheduled, I logged-in in my email-id and blog.
Out of hundred messages, I  found this very sweet message……
“Congratulation, Himali Shah of Decoding happiness is now following your blog”.
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Wow………. wonderful……… Fantastic………. fabulous…….MY usual reaction,
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One blogger has started to follow my blog,
                                                                      
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog, which no one even cares to notice has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog, which is created by most illiterate person of the planet, and teaches others to be literate, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog created by a person, who hardly knows anything about writing, and than also keep writing, whatever, comes in his mind, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) a blog created by one person, whose, lack of proper knowledge of English language is laughing point for most of the bloggers, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog created by one weird person, who hardly follow the rules of traditional, Stereotype blogging pattern and publish the posts on most strange manner, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!                     φ
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) a blog created by most failure person in life and wants to teach the world of the rules of success has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) a blog slowly but steadily becoming threats for the so-called “Bigies” of blogging world and compels them to change their style, has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!
(Quotations, Idioms and Proverbs) A blog run by the one weird blogger who always view their critics with one proverb ” Barking Dogs Seldom Bite” has got one more follower!!!!!!!!!!!!
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The same blog has got one more follower,
Very strange!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Bloggers are dying and crying to get one more follower, participate in each “Community Pool” thread, Use the most effective tool of Blogging Awards Posts, X nominated Y, Y once again nominated X, and each other keep nominating each other until they both get exhausted!!!!!!!!!! “, paste their blog’s link whenever and wherever they find any opportunity to lure one more follower and, here, I am without any marketing gimmicks or tremendous tricks or hard selling techniques have got one more follower.
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Yes, Himali, on that day,  you gave me first reason to Decoding my  happiness.
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After initial hysteria and happiness…………                                  ♦
As per my normal practice, I visited your blog,   
I found the name of the blog,                                                                              ♠
“Decoding Happiness”              
Yes, Himali, one that day,you gave me second reason to Decoding my happiness,by choosing one of the best name of blog.
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During my first visit I found, Decoding Happiness, is vast empire of this wide world of Web, and each corner of this empire is full with, Love,  happiness, joy,  cheerfulness, optimism & positivism……….
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I thought that, since, I have already visited this empire, let me see who is the PRINCESS of this vast empire.
As a curios person, I visited “About page…………
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I found that by profession this modern princess is “Chartered Accountant” one of the highly prestigious and admirable profession in Indian subcontinent.
Yes, Himali, on that day, you gave me the third reason to Decoding my happiness.
Because, during my study, How to secure minimum marks on Accountancy, Statistics, or any subject related to complex mathematical calculation was one the most worrisome issue and here one lady named  Himali, master of that subject is following my blog.                                         
Miracles do happens!!!!!!                          
GOD IS GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!                                                                              ♦
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Than, I explore other posts of Decoding Happiness,
I found that, She is very sweet and loving daughter of  her mother♦
She is very adorable sister of her brother,                       ♦
Yes, It gave me immense pleasure that my blog is followed by one very sweet,lovely and very family oriented person, because, I too respect this quality a lot in my personal life…….                 ♣
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As a my regular practice, I wrote one sweet “Thanks” comment for following my blog.
Without any expectations,                          ♠        
Without any return favor………..
Because, she is the princess of vast empire which has nearly 500+  inhabitants (followers,)
Hundreds of comments on various posts,                                     ♣
Hundred of likes on her Facebook page,
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Why on a earth, such a distinguish,notable blogger of her class,quality and stature will reply to my comment?
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But as a very optimistic person, anyhow, I wrote that comment,
                                                        
And do you know? out of my sheer surprised, she replied my comment with lots of warmth,cheerfulness and joy.
                                                    It  was  our first conversation  ♥
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It is said that,
“our words reflects true color,character,mental state,quality,upbringing, family value, tradition, our own moral and ethics and principles of our personality”.
                                    
From that reply I found that she is not only…..
Best of best bloggers,                          ♦
She is not only best of best writers,                       
But,
She is the person with                   
Sweet soul,
Noble heart                      ♥
and purity of mind, her each word reflects her inner soul,
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Yes, Himali, on that day, you gave me fourth reason to Decoding my happiness,
Because,                           ∗
as a very simple,sober and straight-forward,GOD loving,humble, human being, I always like the company of same people and in each of these qualities you were and are far better,far superior, far ahead, and  far senior than me,
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Yes, out of millions of negative, ill minded, naysayers, haters, traitors,Negative, harmful, pessimistic,depressing,  destructive,cynical,disheartening,conspirators, biased persons, I found one very similar person of my own nature,personality, ethics,value and belief.
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From that day onward,
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I simply respected you as a my MY YOUNGER SISTERgood friend, fellow blogger,humble human being, sweet soul,caring and sharing friend,
And till today………….                              
Not a single time, you gave me any reason to complain about you,
Not a single time, you gave me any reason, to distrust you,                    ∗
Not a single time you gave me any reason to be unhappy with you,
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As a normal tendency, every human relation runs on “Give and Take” theory,
                                                                                       
But being a selfish person, being a practical person, being a very arrogant and proud person,
Not a single time, I fulfilled my duty of giving back to you,
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Never cared to simple clikc of “LIKE” on your various versatile posts ranging from the subject of love, compassion, empathy, humanity.
Never cared to comment on your various classic, cool and qualitative posts written by you,
Never cared to “Read your sweet posts written straight from the ocean deep heart”,
                                                                   
After all, I was very much, practical person, and it does not fall in to my practical plan or mind that I too should read your ALL  posts,”LIKE” on it, Comment on it,
But,                                                               
As a,
 Saint like soul,
♦ Sage like character,         
♦ Monk like mortals,                                                                       ♥
You never cared about it,
After all,
“Sweet and Solid soul of Saints,Sages and Monks born on this earth to give  others, not receiving from others”,                                                   ♠
AND……………..
What a beggar like me offer to one of the richest person on earth,
So, I never, offered you any “Nomination of any Bloggging Award”,
You never mind it,           
What a tenant of small house can offer to princess of wealthiest kingdom,
So, I never offered you any……….
Five day Five photo challenge, Love and hate challenge, or any other challenge you,
you never mind it,
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What a handicap child offer to best Athlete of the world,
So,I never, Invited you to participate in “Three day three quote challenge,
You never mind it,
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And till today,
you never mind anything at all, and from VERY beginning you are on the “Giving end” and I am on the “Receiving End”,
 But, today, I realized that……….
                             
“If you truly Love to GOD, preferably you should go regularly to your defined religious place every day, perform the rituals or worship on daily basis, but, somehow, you do not do this, As a creator of this universe, as a motivational force of this universe, he hardly bothers  ABOUT it,whatever he had and have givens us, whether, we acknowledge it as a his gift or not, he hardly bothers………..No he never bother about it.……
                                                          
But as a showing our love and gratitude, once in a while we should chant his name, once in a while we should do some random act of kindness towards others and unknown, some random act of loving and helping to others,
It is not for him, but it is for us,
                               
The same way, this is my smallest effort on the very auspicious day of
                                                                   “Friendship Day”♥
to show my love,affection,respect and care towards you as a MY YOUNGER SISTER, best blogging buddy,
It is not for you, but, for me I am doing it.
In spite of my lots of lack, limitations,pride,prejudices,hate,anger,ego,jealousy,negativity, thanks a lot for choosing me as a your best blogging friend…….
In spite of all the time being on the “Giving End’ still, you stuck with as a rock solid friend during my thick and thin time of blogging life………………
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As a religious and spiritual person, I worship a lot to GOD, and I am quiet confident that after my years of dedication,devotion and worship, one day, GOD will be certainly pleased with me and ask me to demand one wish, and
Do you know,
What I will ask as a my wish?
 
I will ask the GOD “To give birth to more and more good people like you on this earth”
BECAUSE, IN THE CURRENT SITUATION OF HATE,RACISM, TERRORISM,POLITICAL TURMOIL,
WE NEED NO MORE     “TERRIFYING AND TROUBLESOME TERRORISTS”,
WE NEED NO MORE      “POWERFUL AND POISON TYPE POLITICIANS”,
WE NEED NO MORE       “ NAYSAYERS,NEGATIVE AND GENERATION OF HATERS”,
BUT, WE NEED MORE AND MORE PERSON LIKE YOU ON THIS EARTH………………
JUST one HIMALI SHAH ” Through her blog, through her personality, kindle thousands of soul, enlighten thousands of minds, and spread the message of peace,happiness and love,
Just Imagine,
If we have millions of persons like her on this planet, certainly, it can turn hell into heaven”
Last but not least……………..
                                                        ♥  This is  our last conversation  ♥
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Your question……………
My answer…………………….
“WISHING A VERY “HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY “TO MY YOUNGER SISTER & DEAREST BLOGGING buddy”
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TO ALL THE READERS,
By the way, It is plain Blogging post, it has nothing to do with my or Himali’s personal life, me and Himali are good “Blogging Friends” of each other, we more often, communicate with each other through our respective blog, our other mutual friends blog( OUR OPEN AND TRANSPARENT COMMUNICATION IS AVAILABLE ON NET, IN OUR RESPECTIVE BLOGS, IN CASE, ANYBODY WANTS TO REFER IT IN PRESENT OR FUTURE, I NEVER COMMUNICATE WITH MY ANY FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS THROUGH PERSONAL EMAIL ID)  and as a Die-hard fan of her blog, I am quiet familiar with her each posts, which, I was needed to write this post, SO, I have used her blog as a my expression to respect her,
I always respect Himali as a my younger Sister”,
As a part of my “Creative Writing Course” now a days, I am experimenting with various writing style, In my previous post, in classic manner I used tone of various emotions in best possible manner  “Fun and Flirting tone”, A little sad tone by using SAD fictional story of my life in post, I used very bold and blunt approach by using many words which as a civilized person I avoid in my blog.
After all, I am running this blog for my happiness, not for the happiness of others,
So, stay tuned, for more off-beat,bold, Out of the box type, firing type of posts on future,those who do not like my blog please do not hesitate to unsubscribe or avoid to visit it.
THE LESS THE BETTER, I  MEAN IT!!!!!!!
I prefer “Class over Mass”,
I prefer ” Quality over Quantity”
 

ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB

Dear friends,

Please excuse me for few days, I will not be present on the world of WORD PRES.

Where am I going?

Of course in Heaven!!!

Why?

Very simple, the lovely ladies of this LAND, in spite of my constant refusal “nominating me for various blogging awards”, compelling me to accept the  “Challenges”, requesting me to write the “Guest posts on their blog.”

No doubt, I am determined,disciplined and decent man, but, till how long one can resist, when to avoid,to ignore one beauty seems daunting task, bunch of beauties, provoking you…………Constantly………Endless…….

Enough is enough……..

I do not want to test my will power any more, before, I surrender myself to you, it is safest way to escape,quit & run away, before you catch me, at least for few days and that is why I am going to heaven.

Awesome and Amazing Akiraa nominated me for “STARLIGHT BLOGGING AWARD”

Electrifying and Elegant Erika nominated me for “DRAGON’S LOYALTY AWARD”

Elegant and Easygoing Erika nominated me for “THE SUNSHINE AWARD”

Excellent and Exclusive Eloquent deviance nominated me for “THE LIBSTER AWARD”

Fabulous and Fantastic Frugal fab nominated me for “THE VERSATILE BLOGGER AWARD”

Hilarious & Happy Helen nominated me for “SISTERHOOD OF THE WORLD BLOGGERS AWARD”

Kindhearted and Keen Katho nominated me for “THE LIBSTER AWARD”

Marvelous and Magnificent Meloheart invited me to write guest post on her new blog “SEEKING ROMANCE”

I politely refused her, why? she wants me to write the guest posts on her new yet very romantic blog on “ROMANCE”, “If it was about “FLIRTING” I could have thought about it, because from childhood I have firm grip on this subject, but, ROMANCE & LOVE, always alien words,troublesome and terrifying test for me, once, I tried my hand on it,badly wounded, still suffering, still RECOVERING,from that day on ward, I decided except me and GOD, I will not throw my pure 24 Karat GOLD LIKE HEART to any one….

AFTER ALL, PRECIOUS AND FRAGILE THINGS NEED SPECIAL HANDLING, ISN’T IT”? CORRECT ME, IF I AM WRONG.

New kid on block Nabilah nominated me for “THE VERSATILE BLOGGER AWARD”

STYLISH and SWEET Shruti challenged me for “THREE DAY THREE QUOTE CHALLENGE”

YOUNG  and YOUTHFUL Yashika nominated me for “CREATIVE BLOGGER AWARD”

 

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My previous post has become most successful post of my blog, thanks to all those who have click on it, thanks to all those who have read it, thanks to all those who have “LIKE” it and special thanks to

Decent Dr.Sweety, Electrifying Erika, Honourable Himali, Lovely Lionessblogger, Magical Marie, Simple Shelie,     Manficient Meloheart, Dashing Donna, Amazing Anxietybug88, Dear Dream it alive, Sweet taste of Chocolate,   Narrative Nadege, Nectarous Netta, Vedic  Velcherup, Sweet Shweta, Nice Nicole, Interesting Isabella, Amazing Akiraa, Beautiful flower of Rose, Close companion Chhaya,Inspirational Kim, Pure Pallavi, Saaint like Stacy, Simply superb Star,

For your live,active and interesting participation on discussion.

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UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

As all of you know very well, I have started NEW section named “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)” in my blog, under this section, now onward, In my each post, I will feature or promote one blog(er) of my followers.

QUALIFYING CRITERIA;

  • Blogger must be follower of this (QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS) blog.
  • Blogger’s active involvement with this blog as a commentator on various posts (Do not worry, I publish posts twice in a month, 1 & 15 of every month,so every other day, I will not bore you with my useless and rubbish posts of various blogging awards,in which you will have to read about which underwear I ware or what is the size of my private parts), live & active participation on various debate and discussion going on this blog, constant communication in the form of fruitful feedback, solid suggestions, helpful hints and trustworthy tips, in short, active community member,
  • Why all this? simple, I like live-wire,talkative,friendly people around me in my cyber life, if you are one of them, fine, you will find close companion in me, if you are not, sooner or later, you will realize, we are not on same wavelength,  Honestly speaking, I have created this blog for building the bridges with strangers, unknown people, I hardly concern about how many followers I have, but, yes, I do concern about how many friends I have, with whom, without entering in their personal life or allowing them into my personal life enjoy the plain, pure and innocence joy of true friendship. Are you interested, if yes, our vibes match.. OTHERWISE…..
  • Uniqueness of blog in terms of nature of blog, quality of posts, creative content, outstanding material and last but not least friendliness or friendly nature of blogger(Very important criteria).

Now, it’s time for this post’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER).

Today, I am little bit confused, how I describe her, because, she is all in one, an all rounder.

Should I describe her as a Mermaid, because, her friends refer to her as “Mermaid”because,  it’s totally normal to her to stay in the ocean most of her life, and that creatures lurking the beach that makes her a little jittery.

Should I describe her as a devoted wife and caring mother of two handsome son?

Should I describe her as a tough professional because she has nearly 30 years experience in retailing?

Should I describe her as a fun-loving,easy-going, friendly nature bloger?

Should I describer her as a very creative,talented, gifted bloger?.

No friends, none of above title justify her true personality, I am unable to portrait perfect picture of this gorgeous, colorful,charming,vibrant and dynamic lady,

Do you know what connect both of us on more deeper level, we both are highly intellectual, sharp analytical and quiet practical person in our personal life but in spite of all these qualities we both are mad and crazy lover of GOD and we never hesitate to admit it openly. Who cares???

Yes, I am talking about none other than one and only dashing diva of blogspeher as a………..

UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

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NOW, IT’S TIME FOR TODAY’S POST,

ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB

Yes friends,
Words are indeed sound superb, there is no doubt about it, but those words lose it’s charm or importance when it is used as monotonous process or from -ROBOT- like mouth, without any action justify or prove it worthiness.
YOUR ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS-PROVERB
 
Instead of saying “I Love You” three times in a day,sending few text messages, sharing few sweet lovely poems,occasional cards, cheap gifts on “Valentine Day” to your girl friend……
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to pass on her exams…..
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone,to find the job….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone,to tolerate the nasty,rude,vulgar,cheap and bitter comments someone passing on her heavy weight, bulky body,ugly look, uneven body shape,big melon size boobs, big buttocks,flat playground like chest, pimples on face, black and dark spots on face…..
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to face the bullying by unknown person….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is fighting her battle alone, to tolerate the trauma, trouble and torture she is facing when there is peer pressure to perform on certain manner or as per society’s stereotype standards,no matter how much it is against her will and happiness……
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS…………
 
Instead of hug her before leaving home and while coming back to your wife…
Be there,when she is fighting her battle alone against death in that maternity home’s delivery room to conceived your first child….
Be there when she is fighting her battle alone to deal with your family members or in-laws rigid and conservative mind-set….
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when she is managing your household effectively and efficiently when your low income is even not half of the monthly requirement…..
Show your gratitude when her skeleton like body throughout the day work hard to finish all the household work without any maid help and at night gives you cool comfort of her warm breath on your chest and satisfying your hunger, play,rub,shake and some time suck your penis, to give you plain pleasure of pleasant,sweet and sound sleep,no matter, how much exhausted or tired she is…
Hold her hand tightly and firmly when raising one kid seems daunting task, she is raising your more than one kid as a most efficient teacher cum mother without any complain or drama.
Kiss her gently when your low libido(lower sex drive,appetite or hunger ) hardly satisfy her sexual requirements and due to that she never experience climax(a discharge of neuromuscular tension at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female ,usually known as an orgasm-urbandictionary) and due to that most of the time she remains hungry,unsatisfied,depressed and lost that also without any complain or drama………..
Because………..
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS………….
Instead of being part of every celebration of success of your close friend, instead of sending every day few vulgar, cheap and pornography video clips of Sunny leon or women with big and beautiful boobs, various sex positions, how to fuck the women,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder, when unemployment has broke her down,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder,when her confidence level has deteriorate up to the extent and she is seriously thinking to commit the suicide,
Put your gentle or caring hand on her shoulder when she is desperate, she is alone, she need to talk with some one and no one is there,
Be there, just sit with her, just seat silently, let her speak, let her cry, let her do what ever she think most appropriate in this situation………………
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……………
 
Instead of becoming crusader of humanity, delivering long and boring lecture whenever and wherever find the crowd, instead of publishing lengthy, rubbish,useless and stereotype posts on your blog about humanity,sympathy, empathy, pick up one or few followers from your own blog, be friend with them, win their heart, win their trust,be genuine with them and slowly but steadily, just start to uplift them, empower them, enhance them, without doing any drama, without any publicity, without any stunt, without creating any big scenes on social media, without even caring about declaring your real name, forget about any personal glory and gratification or return favor
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS…………….
 
Instead of trying to make everybody more noble,charitable, sympathetic,human,
While passing through road in your cool, comfortable and classic car, get down from car and help that old & disable lady, who is struggling hard since last few minutes to cross the road,
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……….
 
Instead of proving your self feminist on every social gathering by your very sophisticated, very polished, very diplomatic style, behaviors, manners and etiquette, raise your voice as loud as possible when you see that young, helpless girl or that helpless divorcee women everyday molested by your boss to keep her job intact,
Because,
YOUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS……..
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GOOD BYE FRIENDS, NOW, AS PER MY PLAN I AM GOING TO HEAVEN FOR FEW DAYS, PLEASE, DO NOT FOLLOW ME THERE, PLEASE DO NOT CHASE ME THERE………
BECAUSE………
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CHASE OR RUN BEHIND ME ANYWHERE, IF YOU LOOK CAREFULLY IN YOUR HEART, IN ONE CORNER OF THAT HEART YOU WILL FIND ME, BECAUSE, I ALWAYS RESIDE ON SWEET SOUL,NOBLE HEART & PURE MIND OF MY LOVELY AND SWEET FRIENDS SPREAD UP ALL ACROSS THE GLOBE…………
 

General reader feedback is usually pretty worthless. 99% of people give feedback that is irrelevant, stupid, or just flat out wrong. But that 1% of people who give good feedback are invaluable.-Tucker Max

HELLO FRIENDS,

IT GIVES ME IMMENSE PLEASURE TO PUBLISH THIS POST;

This is Fifth post under the series-

“My blogging journey-From 0 to 100 followers cum friends”.

For reading previous posts click on below posts.
POST-1-

BE NOT AFRAID OF GROWING SLOWLY, BE AFRAID ONLY OF STANDING STILL. CHINESE PROVERB

POST-2-

PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT-PROVERB
POST-3-

YOU DON’T START OUT WRITING GOOD STUFF. YOU START OUT WRITING CRAP AND THINKING IT’S GOOD STUFF, AND THEN GRADUALLY YOU GET BETTER AT IT. THAT’S WHY I SAY ONE OF THE MOST VALUABLE TRAITS IS PERSISTENCE”.- OCTAVIA BUTLER 
POST-4.

BEAUTY LIES IN THE EYES OF BEHOLDER-PLATO

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                                                                   UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

As all of you know very well, from above mention POST- 1, I have started NEW section named “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)” in my blog, under this section, now onward, In my each post, I will feature or promote one blog(er) from the list of my followers.

QUALIFYING CRITERIA;

  • Blogger must be follower of this (QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS) blog.
  • Blogger’s active involvement with this blog as a commentator on various posts (Do not worry, I publish posts twice in a month ONLY) , live participation on various debate and discussion going on this blog, constant communication in the form of fruitful feedback, solid suggestions, helpful hints and trustworthy tips, in short, active community member.
  • Uniqueness of blog in terms of nature of blog, quality of posts, creative content, outstanding material and last but not least friendliness or friendly nature of blogger.
  • To know more about previously featured blog(er) please visit on post 1, post 2, post-3 & post-4.

Now, it’s time for this post’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER).

DOCTOR……

When you read this word, first thought comes in your mind,

A person who wears white apron, a person with spectacle and serious eyes,a person with little bit serious face,a person who always advise you about what to do and what not do, a person whose neck most of the time surrounded with stethoscope…………

Isn’t it??????????

Yes, this is what general impression we have about doctor……..

But, today, I am going to introduce one exceptional doctor, this doctor heals the wounds with sweet words instead of medicine, this doctor, gives you wise words of feedback when you need it badly, to this doctor, you can always count her as  your “Friend,philosopher cum guide.”

She is so sweet, that’s why everyone calls her as a “Sweety”, Come on, join with me to meet & greet this…

UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

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“General reader feedback is usually pretty worthless. 99% of people give feedback that is irrelevant, stupid, or just flat out wrong. But that 1% of people who give good feedback are invaluable”.-Tucker Max 

Tucker Max is an American author and public speaker.  Wikipedia 

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After having one and half years experience, publishing 30 posts, receiving hundreds of comments, replying to hundreds of comments, nomination of various blogging awards, receiving hundreds of likes on my various posts, passing comments on hundreds of posts written by newest blogger friends to the highest admired bloggers in blogosphere, the biggest lesson I learned;

“never-ever underestimate the power or importance of comment on your blog, take every steps to comment on your followers blog and receive comments on your blog, because, comments are heart of your blog, without comments your blog looks like a barren land, skeleton, a body without life”…………….  

Yes, friends, it is very true,

Why????????????

Till today, I have received hundreds of comments on my blog, so, today, I want to share my most favourite three comment with you.

1-GOOD,  2-BETTER,  3-BEST,

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ANXIETYBUG88

“Your posts are just jam-packed with inspiration. I really love how much work you put into your posts. The amount of good material in your posts is staggering. Just to let you know, though,

when you say “From 0 to 100 followers cum friends”, um… “cum” is actually a slang term for something sexual in nature, to put it delicately. You might want to consider changing it to the proper spelling “come.”

To read more about this comment, click here

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ULTIMATELIBROPHIE

“That’s a very thought provoking post. It’s interesting how you connect popular sayings to religion and spirituality.

One small suggestion: Have you considered going through a style guide? I can recommend Merriam Webster.

I enjoy your blog and do look forward to reading more of it.

By style guide, I meant using a punctuation and style guide, my personal preference being Merriam Webster, but you can choose any one that you like as I’ve noticed that your blog has a tendency to have grammatical errors. I mean this only as constructive criticism and not judgement”.

To read more about this comment click here

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CATHERINE HAMRICK

“Note: the of use “you” below is an easygoing way of implying the universal “one.”

Jean Paul Sartre was long-winded, but a short-winded remark sticks with me: “l’enfer, ces’t les autres” (hell is other people). In short, don’t define yourself in light of others’ opinions; believe in yourself.

I will qualify that a bit when it comes to writing.

Be open to informed critique rather than latching on to feel-good praises. The latter is all well and good. However, as noted in this blog, practice is the making of a writer. Revise, revise. Throw out cliches, strung-out structures, and vapid adjectives and adverbs. Find purpose in every word or let it go.

“Look for the clutter in your writing and prune it ruthlessly. . . . Is anything pompous or pretentious or faddish? Are you hanging on to something useless just because you think it’s beautiful?” –William Zinsser, On Writing Well

As the wise writer of this blog says, “Practice, practice, practice.”

Have the courage to be your own good critic. Enjoy positives exchanges with fellow bloggers. Have fun. Writing should never be an act of desperation.

To read more about this comment click here

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Today, I am asking one very simple question to all of you….

Imagine for a moment, you are running moderate successful blog with around hundred happy followers cum friends, when you receive, critical feedback, constructive criticism, friendly suggestion or any kind of unpleasant comment, how will you react or respond??

I am giving you four options;

Option-1; I will not approve comment.

Option-2; I will approve comment but will not reply or respond it.

Option-3, I will approve it but reply it in most unprofessional,rude and aggressive tone.

Option-4, I will approve it and I will reply it in most professional,polite and friendly tone.

SELECT THE MOST SUITABLE OPTION AND CLEARLY MENTION WHY YOU HAVE SELECTED IT AND SIMPLY WRITE DOWN IN COMMENT………………

EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ REPLY FROM ALL OF YOU, AS A NORMAL PRACTICE, I COMMENT ON ONLY THOSE BLOGS WHO COMMENTS ON MY BLOG, AFTER ALL IT’S GIVE & TAKE WORLD, ISN’T IT???

Wishing you all the best…………..

 

 

Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder-Plato

HELLO FRIENDS,

IT GIVES ME IMMENSE PLEASURE TO PUBLISH THIS POST;

This is fourth post under the series-

“My blogging journey-From 0 to 100 followers cum friends”.

For reading previous posts click on below posts.
POST-1-

BE NOT AFRAID OF GROWING SLOWLY, BE AFRAID ONLY OF STANDING STILL. CHINESE PROVERB

POST-2-

PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT-PROVERB
POST-3-

YOU DON’T START OUT WRITING GOOD STUFF. YOU START OUT WRITING CRAP AND THINKING IT’S GOOD STUFF, AND THEN GRADUALLY YOU GET BETTER AT IT. THAT’S WHY I SAY ONE OF THE MOST VALUABLE TRAITS IS PERSISTENCE”.- OCTAVIA BUTLER 
And this is POST-4.

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UNIQUE BLOG(ER)

As all of you know very well, from above mention POST- 1, I have started NEW section named “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)” in my blog, under this section, now onward, on my each post, I will feature or promote one blog(er) from the list of my followers.

QUALIFYING CRITERIA;

  • Blogger must be follower of this (QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS) blog.
  • Blogger’s active involvement with this blog as a commentator on various posts, live participation on various debate and discussion going on this blog, constant communication in the form of fruitful feedback, solid suggestions, helpful hints and trustworthy tips, in short, active community member.
  • Uniqueness of blog in terms of nature of blog, quality of posts, creative content, outstanding material and last but not least friendliness or friendly nature of blogger.
  • To know more about previously featured blog(er) please visit on post 1, post 2 & post-3.

Now, it’s time for this post’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER).

Dear friends,

Today, under the section of “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)” I am going to introduce one very interesting person, humbel human being and friend of friends, She has……..

The mind of a warrior, the heart of a lover, the soul of an artist. Come on…. let us visit and know her “madness”, or learn something by our own………from this…………Very talented,creative & friendly blogger.

“UNIQUE BLOG(ER)”  

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NOW, IT’S TIME FOR TODAY’S POST;

“Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder”-

Plato

Plato was a philosopher, as well as mathematician, in Classical Greece. He is considered an essential figure in the development of philosophy, especially the Western tradition, and he founded the Academy ...Wikipedia

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Are you really interested to make your blog most successful blog?????????

Are you really interested to make your blog most reader-friendly blog??????????

Are you really interested to make your blog meeting point, where you’re various friends; spread up all across the globe come and meet you as well as your other friends??????????

Are you really interested to make your blog most lively blog???????

Are you really interested to make your blog most friendly blog??????????

If answers of all above mention question is yes, than, this is the most useful, informative and suitable post for you.

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I SAY, “PRAY TO GOD”………..

“But for what” ???????

For giving you “Beautiful Eyes”……….

“Oh, come on, dude, GOD has given me most beautiful, black, big, attractive, striking, remarkable eyes from birth, So, what’s the big deal”??????????

“You are misunderstood my dearest, lovely, kind and very innocent friend”………….

“Now, come on, don’t confuse me more, tell me clearly what you want to tell me”???????

“Yes, GOD has given you most beautiful,black,big,attractive,striking,remarkable eyes”…….

BUT…………

  • “You are not using it properly”
  • “You are not using it as it should be used”
  • “You are not utilizing it at optimum level”
  • You are not…………….

“Once again, I am confused; still, I am unable to understand what do you mean”???

Now, let me explain you in most simplified manner………..

Yes, GOD has given you most beautiful eyes

BUT………..

  • Where ever you go you always try to see the ugliest things first from that entire matter and beautiful things later on…..
  • “Where ever you go you always try to see the crap first and finest things later on from that matter”………
  • “Where ever you go you always try to see the clutter first and beautiful things later on from that matter”………
  • “Where ever you go you always try to see the weakness, drawbacks, and faults from other first and good virtue later”……….
  • “Where ever you go you always try to see the negative or dark side of the matter first and appreciate good things later on”…………..
  • “Where ever you go you always try to see the matter from the fault-finding eyes first and praise worthy matter later on”…….

AM I RIGHT????????

“Yes, up to some extent you are right, still, I am not thoroughly convince but your this thought makes a little sense to me”……..

Now, this is one reason, why you as a blogger performing far below than your potentiality, this is one reason, why your blog; which is otherwise good but not performing as per it should perform……

GOT MY POINT…………

Once again I am confused…….

Can you please tell me………..

What is the co-relation between by way of looking to the matter and performance of my blog?????????

Very simple……..

My dear friend, it is very simple……….

Your jealous, your fault-finding, your sharp analytically, your over-perfectionist, your over-critical eyes never allows you to see the beauty of that blog or blogger beneath the surface, and since, you are unable to see the beauty, you are unable to appreciate it and since you are unable to appreciate it, no one appreciate you or your blog……….

“OH, MY GOD…………YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT………NOW SLOWLY BUT STEADILY THE MATTER BECOMES CRYSTAL CLEAR TO ME”………

Now once again I am asking the same questions to you……..

  • Are you really interested to make your blog most successful blog?
  • Are you really interested to make your blog most reader-friendly blog?
  • Are you really interested to make your blog meeting point, where you’re various friends spread up all across the globe come and meet you as well as your other friends?
  • Are you really interested to make your blog most lively blog?
  • Are you really interested to make your blog most friendly blog?

SIMPLE ANSWER OF ALL ABOVE MENTION QUESTIONS…….

“MAKE YOUR EYES AS MUCH BEAUTIFUL AS MUCH POSSIBLE”

After having one and half years experience, publishing 29 posts, receiving hundreds of comments, replying to hundreds of comments, nomination of various blogging awards, receiving hundreds of likes on my various posts, passing comments on hundreds of posts written by newest blogger friends to the highest admired bloggers in blogosphere,

The biggest lesson I learned,

“Try to see the beauty from the ugliest looking blog, try to see the beauty from crap looking blog, try to find out most positive things from the most negative looking blog, try to see the most bright side from most dark looking  blog.”

Yes, friends, change your perception a little bit and you will find most amazing, awesome, friendliest bloggers and blog all around………

REMEMBER, EVERYTHING IS OPTIONAL, IT’S NEITHER SUGGESTION NOR FEEDBACK, IF YOU ARE INTERESTED TO GROW AS A BLOGGER OR AS A HUMAN BEING DO IT, ULTIMATELY, IT IS YOUR LIFE AND HOW TO LIVE IT, THAT CHOICE ALWAYS REMAINS WITH YOU………

NO ONE IS PERFECT ON THIS PLANET AND THAT IS THE BEAUTY OF LIVING IN THIS PLANET, JUST FOR A WHILE, IMAGINE,  IF EACH AND EVERY LIVING HUMAN BEING IS PERFECT, HOW MUCH BORING,DULL AND UNINTERESTING PLACE THIS PLANET WOULD BE……..

AM I RIGHT OR WRONG???????????????????????????

Eagerly awaiting to read reply from my all dearest,kind,humble,co-operative,creative,talented and most sweet friends spread all across the globe……….

I am quiet confident, none of you will disappoint your this friend.

Wishing you all the best………………..

 

 

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You don’t start out writing good stuff. You start out writing crap and thinking it’s good stuff, and then gradually you get better at it. That’s why I say one of the most valuable traits is persistence.- Octavia Butler

This is third post in the series of MY BLOGGING JOURNEY; FROM 0 TO 100 FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS.

For reading post 1 right click here

For reading post 2 right click here

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This post I have split in three (3) sections.

Section 1: Slight changes in my “acceptance of various blogging awards” policy.

Section 2: Unique Blog (er).

Section 3: Today’s post.

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Section 1: Slight changes in my “acceptance of various blogging award” policy.

As all of you know, I am not in much favor of honor or acceptance OF VARIOUS BLOGGING AWARDS and in this regard I have created one exclusive page named AWARDS, in that page, I have politely requested to all my friends, not to nominate me or my blog for any awards, but, still, I am nominated by many friends, I truly understand your reasons behind it, not only that but I truly appreciate your love & affection & that love & affection compelled me to review my policy in this regard.

So, now onward those who wants to nominate me or my blog for any award, please notify me on this page(AWARDS), in the response of this notification, I will link back to you on your post, but, please, keep in mind, looking to my tight schedule I will not publish the separate post in this regard, for further information please refer my correspondence with eloquent deviance on AWARD page.

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Section 2: Unique Blog (er).

As all of you know from above mention post 1,I have started one section named UNIQUE BLOG(ER) in my blog, where I feature or promote one blog(er) from the list of my followers.

QUALIFYING CRITERIA;

  • Blogger must be follower of this (QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS) blog.
  • Blogger’s involvement with this blog as a commentator on various posts, live participation on various debate and discussion on this blog, constant communication in the form of fruitful feedback, solid suggestions, helpful hints and trustworthy tips, in short active community member.
  • Uniqueness of the blog in terms of nature of blog, quality of posts, creative content, outstanding material and last but not least friendliness or friendly nature of blogger.
  • To know more about previously featured blog(er) please visit on post 1 & post 2.

 

Now, it’s time for this post’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER).

Nadege, creator of the blog the laughter medicine for soul is this post’s unique blogger;

Why?????????????????

I truly touched by this physically mid-age but mentally very young, agile, enthusiastic lady, her enthusiasm, her zeal, her friendly nature, her amazing ability to create most hilarious and humorous posts from very ordinary looking subjects are some of the qualities simply compelled me to announce her as my this post’s unique blog(er).

Nadege; please accept my heartfelt congratulation for being this post’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER).

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Section 3: Today’s post.

“You don’t start out writing good stuff. You start out writing crap and thinking it’s good stuff, and then gradually you get better at it. That’s why I say one of the most valuable traits is persistence”.

– Octavia Butler

Octavia Estelle Butler was an American science fiction writer. A multiple-recipient of both the Hugo and Nebula awards, Butler was one of the best-known women in the field. Wikipedia

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Since last one and half years I am in the blogosphere and during this period, I have visited hundreds of blogs, I met three types of bloggers,

  1. First- initial enthusiastic or beautiful beginner,
  2. Second- mid-way or moderate type bloggers,
  3. Third- persistent performer,

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  1. First- initial enthusiastic or beautiful beginner,

First of all; let us discuss about the initial enthusiastic or beautiful beginner; this is most strange or surprising category, these are the bloggers who creates the blog with lots of initial enthusiasm, at initial stage of their blogging life they do every possible efforts to make their blog as beautiful as possible by selection of finest themes, setting up all the possible or available widgets, creates their Facebook, twitter, Google plus, Instagram account; participate in various blogging course with lots of zeal and enthusiasm; but after creating blog, setting up themes and widgets, finding most unique and strange name, once their initial enthusiasm diminish, where they vanish even GOD too don’t know, In my followers list there are many of them, who after creating their blog never appeared on blogsphere, till today, I don’t know where they are, no clue, no news, no information about their whereabouts. If you are one of them and reading this post please let me know where are you????????????????????????????????????

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2-Second- mid-way or moderate type of bloggers;

These category of bloggers are far better than initial enthusiastic, they don’t publish posts on regular basis, but, once in a while they publish, you never know when they will appear and when they will disappear; as a follower of these types of blogs, you are always on mercy of their will, when you least expect them, all of sudden they appear on your in box like a unwanted or spam or product promotion type of mail, they often caught you of guard with their posts and you have to recollect your memory and after putting enough pressure on your memory, you realized that once upon a time you subscribed that blog, yes, these are the mid-way or moderate type of bloggers.

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3-Third, persistent performer,

These type of bloggers are persistent performer or rather publish on consistent basis, after some regular interval, invariably you find their posts in your in box.

Now, if you look at the success ratio of all these three types of bloggers, without any doubt you will find that those who are persistent performer, those who publish on consistent basis have more number of successful posts, more number of followers, more number of happy and satisfied friends, more number of comments, more number of awards.

So, after having one and half years’ experience in blogging, after having from 0 to 100+ followers cum friends what one biggest lesson I learned about blogging “Be a persistent performer”, “consistency is a master key of success” not only in blogging but in any endeavor of life.

Today, I am asking one simple question to all of you, can you please tell me out of above mention three categories which one describe you best???????????

Eagerly awaiting to read your reply.

PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT-proverb

THIS IS SECOND POST OF SERIES; MY JOURNEY FROM 0 TO 100 FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS (for reading previous post right click here)

Today’s post;

PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT-proverb

There are many reasons of failures; some of them are worth to mention;

  • LACK OF PRACTICE
  • NEGATIVE PERSONALITY
  • PROCRASTINATION
  • LACK OF ENTHUSIASM
  • LACK OF CONCENTRATION OF EFFORT
  • OVER-CAUTION
  • LACK OF SELF-DISCIPLINE
  • LACK OF A WELL-DEFINED PURPOSE IN LIFE
  • INABILITY TO COOPERATE WITH OTHERS
  • LACK OF AMBITION TO AIM ABOVE MEDIOCRITY
  • WRONG SELECTION OF A VOCATION
  • SUPERSTITION AND PREJUDICE
  • INSUFFICIENT EDUCATION
  • LACK OF A WELL DEFINED POWER OF DECISION
  • ILL HEALTH

But out of all; do you know which one reason I consider most influential, most powerful, and most responsible for someone’s failure??????????

LACK OF PRACTICE;

Yes, lack of practice is one factor, I consider most responsible in someone’s failure. Practice-This simple looking virtue can fundamentally affect our success or failure in each and every endeavor of life and same applies in our blogging life too. After having one and half years experience in blogging life, after publishing 27 posts on my blog, after receiving 451 comments on my blog, after having hundreds of likes on my various posts, after nominated for many awards after passing thousands comments on various blogs

What one lesson I learned????????????????

Practice……Practice…….Practice………Practice……..Practice……..Practice……..Practice…….

The more I practice the more it build up my confidence, the more I practice the more it improvise my skill, the more I practice the more it improvise my speed, the more I practice the more it improvise my productivity.

In short; when I started my blog at that time I had 0 followers cum friends and today I have more than 100 + followers cum friends and major credit goes to my regular practice in each and every sphere of blogging, whether it is publishing post, replying to the comments on my blog, or commenting on my many friend’s blog this simple virtue of regular practice helped me a lot.

  • Practice means to perform, over and over again without being frustrated or losing enthusiasm in the face of all obstacles, some act of vision, of faith, of desire.
  • We cannot be perfect on the very first try; In the face of frustration, in the face of failures our best tool is a few deep breaths, and remembering that we can do anything and everything if we practice hard.
  • Practice is an exercise, practice is mantra it simply tunes both our physical and mental entities to the required frequency that helps us to lead towards perfection.
  • Practice is one such tool which sharpens & strengthens our abilities and capabilities beyond our capacities in pursuit of our worthy goal.
  • Practice awakens the lethargic or dormant potential we have and induces confidence and that confidence helps us to succeed in any task.
  • To practice is to meditate in positive and negative situation.

Concluding part or summary or morale of the story; we have to be aware of the fact that without planned and constant practice, it is next to possible to reach to achieve goals. So perfection and practice go simultaneously that is why practice makes a man perfect.

“Today, I am asking one simple question to all of you, out of all above reasons of failures which one relates you more and what is your counter strategy to deal with it”??????????

LET US BE HONEST IN OUR OWN EVALUATION BECAUSE PREREQUISITE CONDITION OF SUCCESS IS TO CONFESS OUR WEAKNESS OPENLY AND WITHOUT ANY SHAME….

Regarding today’s UNIQUE BLOG(ER); I don’t have any word to describe, you just visit and write whatever you feel in comment section of it…Let us be a human being, let us enlarge our heart, let us experience someone’s pain, and let us create few moments of happiness in someone’s life, because as you know as you sow so shall you reap (right click here)

ONE SINCERE,POLITE & VERY HUMBLE REQUEST TO MY ALL THE FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS, ALL OF YOU MUST VISIT THIS UNIQUE BLOG(ER) AND WRITE ONE OF THE MOST INSPIRATIONAL COMMENT OF YOUR LIFE IN THE COMMENT SECTION OF THIS POST.

I WISH, EACH ONE OF YOU ARE VERY LIVE HUMAN BEING SO YOU KNOW VERY WELL WHAT TO DO IN THIS KIND OF SITUATIONS AND CIRCUMSTANCES………

Today’s (Right click here) UNIQUE BLOG(ER) 

 

 

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still. Chinese Proverb

MOST SENSATIONAL NEWS……………..
Have you read news papers, watched TV news, log-in any social media like face book, twitter, search and surf through internet recently???????????
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How on an earth you can miss such a sensational news or hot topic of the entire universe debated & discussed anywhere & everywhere?
OK,
These are the breaking news, major stories, running throughout the world in all electronics & printing media, shared in all social medias & creating sensation, creating waves of excitement & enthusiasm all over the world people are mad and crazy after hearing OR reading this story.
 “I have copied it from world’s one of the leading newspaper & pasted it here for you people’s knowledge & information”.
Read it with undivided attention, complete focus & complete presence of mind, otherwise you will miss one very very important news.
Breaking news…
From our newsroom,
By our special correspondent,
30/04/2015-Thursday,
“Quotations, Idioms & Proverbs, an exclusive blog about quotations, idioms & proverbs, a word press hosted blog have crossed first major mile stone on 30/04/2015-Thursday by entering into the elite club of “100 HAPPY FOLLOWERS CUM FRIENDS” club.
100 FOLLOWERS cum FRIENDS………………100 FOLLOWERS cum FRIENDS
On this auspicious, joyous & cheerful occasion, to thank all the followers cum friends, readers & well wisher; the blog has issued this statement.
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ANOTHER NEWS STORY FROM ANOTHER LEADING NEWSPAPER;
To make world aware about the simple human being behind this blog, the blog has issued this statement, where some of the facts are revealed which are quiet unknown till today.
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ON THIS OCCASION THE BLOG HAS ANNOUNCED TWO IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENTS….
ANNOUNCEMENT NO: 1
Recently (or date) my “followers cum friends” subscription base has reached magic number of 100;
To document my journey from 0 to 100 followers I will publish nearly 8 to 10 posts twice in a month-(1- 15 & 15-30) in this regard; it will explain you “how you too can reach 100 followers in very short time”? with the help of suitable QUOTATIONS, IDIOMS & PROVERBS In easy-to-understand manner; under the series;
FROM 0 to 100-FOLLOWERS- IF I CAN, YOU TOO CAN ACHIEVE IT
ANNOUNCEMENT NO: 2
“UNIQUE BLOG(ER) SECTION”
I reached here by you people- my follower cum friend’s constant love, affection, support, kindness, co-operation, feedback and loyalty, yes, it’s very true, and so, when you people helped me to reach here I too will help you too reach there.
So, from this post, I am starting one section, “UNIQUE BLOG(ER) SECTION” Under this section once or twice in month, I will promote or feature one UNIQUE BLOG(ER) from my followers cum friends list with brief description as well as URL of blog.
QUALIFYING CRITERIA;
Blogger must me follower of my blog.
Bloggers involvement with my blog by commenting or participating in various posts & discussions.
Uniqueness, creativity, writing style, subject matter, way of presentation and overall quality of posts and content will be the major criteria for qualifying
Based on above criteria, from this post only I have started to feature “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)”, so, do not forget to visit this section placed at the end of this, who knows you, or your blog may be featured or promoted here under UNIQUE BLOG(ER).
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                                               “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)
When you imagine meeting any person in real or cyber world suffering from early childhood as a serious patient of DEPRESSION with suicidal tendency, what can you expect from him/her?????
A sad & gloomy face, overall sadness, life-less eyes, lack of interest in pleasurable or any normal activity, constant worry & anxiety, hardly exited or enthusiastic about anything in life, negative mentality, overall hopeless attitude towards life, obsessive ruminations, this is what we imagine in our mind when we meet such a person in real or cyber world.
But there are some exceptional people, who completely break all these barriers and instead of defeated by depression, they are defeating depression, instead of dominated by depression they are dominating depression with their do or die, fight to finish, killer instinct kind of rock solid attitude, a heart full with love, delicate like petals, pure like rain drops, sweet like sugar, glitter like pure gold with compassion & empathy for others.
KIMBERLEY OR KIM is one such  person and I am more than happy to announce her as my first “UNIQUE BLOG(ER)”, please do not forget to visit, comment and subscribe to this UNIQUE BLOG(ER)- Click here.
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NOW TODAY’S POST

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.-Chinese Proverb

When I started this blog, in my wildest ever dream I haven’t  imagined that one day this blog will reach up to the extent of 100 very happy & satisfied friends cum followers, I never imagined that I will receive these much love, affection, admiration, respect, support, care, co-operation from all these wonderful followers cum friends, I never imagined that the persona like me who hardly knows anything about writing will reach up to this extent, a person like me whose English is not up to the mark and still he commits lots of grammatical errors will be receive these much love from all these highly creative, highly talented, most educated, most distinguish, most literate, most sophisticated people of cyber world.

Yes, friends, it is very very true….

Because, when I started this blog; like all of you, I too was very new to the blogging world, I too was very anxious like all of you, I too was exited like all of you, I too was worried like all of you, I too was nervous like all of you, I too was like all of you with lots of self doubt in mind like all of you………….

In short, when I started this blog,

I was not superman or superwoman & still I am not,

I was not super human being & still I am not,

I was not person with extra ordinary talent and still I am not

I was not very knowledgeable person & still I am not,

I was not heroic or heroine type of person & still I am not,

I was not person with any amazing skill or tremendous talents & still I am not,

 

HONESTLY SPEAKING

Still,I am a person with average personality, average intelligence, average writing skill, average general knowledge like every other person on this planet,

So, now question comes, if I was and still I am with lots of lack and limitations, shortcomings and drawbacks

Why I have reach up to this extent?????????

The simple reasons of this question will be very useful to all of us, especially to those who wants overnight success, to those who wants overnight glamour and glory, to those who wants success at the flash of eyes, to those who just built their castles on air, to those who wants too achieve so many things in their life but hardly prepared to change their mind set.

Some of the harsh lessons, I learned during the process are worth to remember…..

BE NOT AFRAID OF GROWING SLOWLY BUT BE AFRAID ONLY OF STANDING STILL;

While reading many posts from my many blogger friends, this is the most shocking facts I came across, many of them were and far more talented than me, many of them are far more creative than me, many of them are far more imaginative than me, many of them are far more learned than me, many of them are far more good at writing and expressive than me in English languages, many of them had and still having dream to create their blog, but they hardly do anything on it.

So, first of all, remember there is a difference between dream and desire, dreams are nothing else but just the fantasy of mind, while desire is something that you want to do it badly, for dreaming you don’t have to do any efforts, but for converting that dream in to desire you have to do something, for dreaming about anything you don’t need to do anything, just sit or sleep and with open or close eyes you can see all the dreams, so, first of all, understand very well that there is a vast difference between dream and desire.

While having any doubt regarding creating your blog, instead of dreaming too much about it, just create it, that’s all, there are two types of pain; first; the things we don’t do, and the things we have done but not going well.

Remember first pain is much more sever and bitter and painful of not doing than the other pain of you have done something but not going well.

So, lesson no. 1 Start something whatever you want to do; instead of just having dream, start to put it in reality.

So, this is the first secret of success in blogging as well as in general life too,

If you want to do something in your life, whether wants to create your own blog, start to your own business, start to pursue any hobby, start it , remember every thousand steps journey starts with one small any tiny steps, for climbing the mountains you have to start from the bottom.

So, this is the one advice, I would like to pass on to all those who are reading this post,

Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.

Friends, never ever afraid of growing slowly but be afraid when you feel that you have been standing still like a dead body, you have been standing still like a stone, you have been standing still like deaf and dumb, yes, when you found in this situation it is critical time for you to evaluate and analyse yourself properly.

From my stats; I can see that this blog is viewed by almost all the countries of this planet and still I know from very beginning there are many people following me and out of them many of them might have read my first post and still they are reading my this post and out of them many of them might have thought to create their blog someday and still they are thinking, so, this post is completely dedicated to all these day dreamers,

Oh day dreamers, now stop your procrastination, now silent your inner self doubt, because, I am live example in front of you,

If I can do it why you can’t ???????????

What one quality that I possess an you don’t have it??????????

One characteristic I have and you don’t have it?????????????

only right click other wise CLICK HERE-ARE YOU AFRAID OF MISTAKES

No friends, you are much more smarter, shrewder, talented ,creative, imaginative than me, but, I choose not to stand still and today I am guiding you, today, I am giving advise to you, if you have started your own blog, the situation might had been vise versa, either you might have guided me  or we both might have on equal level but you choose to stand still.

TODAY, I AM ASKING TWO QUESTIONS;

IF YOU ARE READER AND NOT BLOGGER WHAT STOPS YOU TO CREATE YOUR OWN BLOG?

IF YOU ARE BLOGGER WHAT WERE THE INITIAL DOUBTS IN YOUR MIND AND HOW YOU COPE OF WITH IT???????????????????

EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ YOUR STORIES…

WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST

 

BLESSING IN DISGUISE-IDIOMS

CAN ALL OF YOU PLEASE HELP ME TO COMPLETE THIS POST??

BLESSING IN DISGUISE-IDIOMS;

The simple meaning of this idiom;

  • There are many matters, accidents & event happens in our life; which at first sight or from primary observation seems unfortunate,painful, sad, unexpected,unwanted, unpleasant BUT after some time the same event, the same accident, the same matter turn out as a blessing instead of curse; it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • Something good that isn’t recognized at first sight or primary observation; it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • Something that at first seems bad or unfortunate,but later on turns out to be most beneficial,most fruitful event of our life;it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • A misfortune or we may perceive as a misfortune that unexpectedly turns into good fortune or life changing or turning point of our life;it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • Something that seems bad,terrible,unlucky or inauspicious at first,but later on results in something good,fruitful or most rewarding later on;it’s called as a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.
  • We can say something is a BLESSING IN DISGUISE, if it appears to be bad at first, but it results in something very good in the end.

SO, NOW ALL OF YOU KNOW VERY WELL, WHAT IS THE MEANING OF BLESSING IN DISGUISE.

CAN ALL OF YOU PLEASE HELP ME TO COMPLETE THIS POST???

“As all of you know very well, I run this blog but I never-ever treated it as an exclusive my own blog but I always treated this blog as OUR BLOG, so, it’s not about me only but it’s always about all of us”.

“To maintain this spirit alive, I regularly publish some posts where we can share our stories with each other; because I firmly believe that your stories and your wisdom are as valuable as mine”.

So, today, I am publishing this post; which can not OR I cannot imagine to complete without all of you wonderful,talented, creative and amazing people.

“So, what I request to all of you; write one such event of your life in comment section which appeared bad at first but later on turned our good at the end”.

HOW YOU CAN HELP ME TO COMPLETE THIS POST????????????

  • There is no hard and fast rules; you can write anything you want to write; keeping the title of subject BLESSING IN DISGUISE in mind without having any constrain in mind about ANY SPECIFIC WORD LIMIT OR SPECIFIC SPACE LIMIT; you can write as much as you wish.
  • But for those who need more guidance; these are the few topics or points upon which you can write.

UNEMPLOYMENT;During the time of unemployment of finding the job; you pursue some hobby or attended some classes or learned something and later on it opened vast world of unknown opportunities in front of you.

GETTING FIRED;Despite of your all the sincere efforts,commitments, dedication or hard-work you fired from your job and you find another most rewarding or dream job of your life, or started something small as your own business and now enjoying each and every moments of your life.

ILLNESS;During the time of small or major illness of yours or your near & dear one’s you found new meaning of life; spiritually,personally or professionally which entirely change your perception of life.

DUMPED BY YOUR EX;Despite of all your unconditional & unselfish love, enough caring & sharing, enough attentive towards that single person of life; with whom you have planned to spend your whole life and all of sudden; you are dumped by your EX(BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND) and you found someone more amazing and awesome and now; after sometime you realized that whatever happened was one of the most wonderful moment of your life.

CHANGE IN LIVING CONDITION;Your parents separated from each other and currently you are living as child of single parent and found new way of living your life.

CHANGE IN YOUR COMFORT ZONE;For further education you left your comfort zone and ventured in unknown territory; initially you were very reluctant to take the plunge but now you are enjoying each and every living moments of it.

DEATH OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBER, FRIEND OR YOUR FAVORITE PET;Initially, it was quiet hard to accept the realities but slowly and steadily you digested it and now you found some one who may not replace all the damage but at least it gives you some consolation.

MARITAL SEPARATION OR DIVORCE;Going through this situation of life or have gone through it and after entire experience it turn out as a one of the most relieving incident of your life.

You were absolutely in hurry and found closed off road and compulsory you had to take another route and found something amazing.

Unexpected delays of flights,bus or your usual mode of transportation delayed in it and due to it you found something absolutely amazing OR MISSED OPPORTUNITIES, SETBACKS-Which temporarily devastated you but in larger scheme of life turn out as a blessing of GOD.

So, friends, now on wards, try noticing some of your inconveniences or dig down in your past or look back on old ones, see the things or matters from different perspective and you will truly understand the meaning of BLESSING IN DISGUISE”.

EAGERLY AWAITING TO READ SOME VERY VERY INTERESTING STORIES FROM EACH ONE OF YOU; LET ME TELL YOU ONE SECRET; I AM VERY SINCERELY FOLLOWING BLOG OF EACH ONE OF YOU AND READING EACH POST WRITTEN BY ALL OF YOU; SO I KNOW VERY WELL EACH ONE OF YOU HAVE SOME STORIES TO TELL.

Wishing you all the best………………………